| I posted to you on your other thread. ↑ |
| cant cope with what?, why do you feel you'd have to do that! ↑ |
| i was raped by step dad and his brother and she is the result ↑ |
scared,
I've read your previous post so I can understand as to why you're having these feelings. I considered adoption and my situation is nowhere near yours. You have to think long and hard about this. Is it possible that you're experiencing the "baby blues" or post-partum depression? I think that adoption is a wonderful means for a mother to give her child something that she's not able to provide. If you truly believe in your heart and soul that this is the right decision, then I would contact an aoption agency and let them do the work. It might be difficult considering you want to stay in the child's life, so be very choosy w/ prospective parents. I wish you the best with your decision and let us know how it goes. ↑ |
| sweetie i think she needs u as much as u r going to need her i wish i could tell u the right thing to do but only u can decide on what u want to do . I know the whole step dad therey mine wasn't as bad as urs but it wasn't ur fault so y should u do something that later on in life u are going to regret. i mean it is bad the fact that someone u thought loved u and is never supposed to hurt u would do something so terrible. what ever decision u make u better think long and hard about. I hope u the best and good luck with everything. ↑ |
What country are you IN? Thanks
Dreams and hubby ↑ |
| I would think long and hard about it, because after you make that decision.... there's no going back....good luck!!!! ↑ |
| The thing they did to you was very bad and there are no words that anyone can say to you that will help you through that unless they themselves have been there and had something like that happen to them. But, that baby was a gift God has given to you out of a bad situation, He has brought you something more precious than anything you could ever dream of or imagine on your own. You say 'I love her'. Look into her eyes and find your answer, sweetie. If you truly feel that you cannot provide her the love and support she needs or if you feel she is in danger herself, then take that into consideration. But, please, do not base your decision on the incident. Because, that was not her fault or your fault. And that little girl, innoscent baby, that you are holding needs you as much as you need her. You were created for each other and God doesn't make any mistakes. He brought you this baby for a purpose. If you love her, you will know what to do by looking in her eyes. ↑ |
Are your parents helping support your baby if they are you should ask them if they would adopt it. I to am 15 and scared but i also know my parents are here to help me.
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Aim~ Adiecf32b ↑ |
| scared1906 has announced in another post that she has decided to keep the baby. ↑ |
Where is this post? I am sorry did not see it. I wish her and the child the best life can bring them.
Dreams ↑ |
