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Name: question

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Daisy's dad showed up today after a HUGE fight (on the phone)last night.I told him not to come at this point because of all that happened but he decided to come down and start all kinds of shit..well,he got to meet all my boys(security gaurds) and he really didnt like it.They told him that he had to leave or he would be visiting with the boys in blue and getting new jewlery.lol he left cussing and swearing calling mee every name in the book but fairly cooperatively.Then he called me screaming,swearing and cussing,saying him and his stupid ass bitch girlfriend are gonna raise my daughter! Im like no way in hell!are you fucking kidding me?Not to mention the fact that he doesnt even know her,has no experience with her special needs or all of her equipment,his abuse record,his drinking record,the fact that he's a drug dealer and user,blah,blah,blah.He was only offering me money and shit to look like it was a good thing but when I met up him he wouldnt give it to me,and said he was gonna use it to buy gas for the bitch...so his offering to help was some kinda sick ploy to get me to come around him.They have security banded Daisy and are not letting her leave the floor now,so that sucks but its for our good.I feel really bad cause I want to let him be a part of her life but i really dont feel like that is in her best interest at least not at this time.I am sooo scared that he would hurt her or disappear with her.Am I being mean not letting him be involved?I told him that if he wants to push it then we can fight it out in court.Am I just being a bitch cause Im mad or am I being reasonable?And if you're gonna put me down and talk shit please dont bother responding.thanks!

Daisy had her oxygen doubled today and we got some new equipment for when we actually get to go home...She will be on oxygen 24/7 and will be on continuous monitoring of her o2 levels and heartrate.She will have to have 24 hr supervision because she quits breathing so much.They started her on a new reflux med and she has to be seen by specialists for monitoring....if the meds don't work then she will need to have a nisson fundoplication (sp?)They are still checing into the airway obstruction issue,we will know more next week.It is alot but we can do it,I just cant wait to get home again! ↓

Name: NIKKIS | Date: Oct 12th, 2007 9:21 PM

First off I don't think you are being a bitch for not letting him see her. He is a loser! It sounds like he doesn't really want to be involved and only acts like he does to hurt you. Which I understand Brooke's dad doesn't usually want anything to do with her but has seen her a few times, and every time he has seen her it is under my terms because I am her mother and her sole provider. He does not provide for her or take care of her, therefore does not get a say in her life.

Now onto the little fighter. Poor baby! What medication have they had her on for her reflux. In my opinion Prevacid works the best. I love you both and will be praying! ↑

Name: question | Date: Oct 12th, 2007 9:27 PM

thanks that makes me feel better.she is now on prevacid.she was on zantac and it helped but not too well.yeah i cant wait to get home when we really know what all the issues are,then I wont have to worry so much. ↑

Name: Lola | Date: Oct 15th, 2007 12:25 PM

He's not reliable enough to even begin to allow him access.

When he starts getting his act together, starting with proper communication and proves he's not just out to stir crap...pays maintenance...Then maybe and just maybe you could allow him a supervised visit. ↑

Name: lacirrom | Date: Oct 15th, 2007 4:50 PM

sal you've been alot nicer to him through all of this than i would have.you are so not being a bitch. you are being a good mom.sometimes it just takes a little bitchiness to be a good mom lol

i hope they get everything figured out about daisy soon! i know it must be hard being back at the hospital again! ↑