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i am a 45 year old woman and a mother of two.. my eldest, who is 13, is my favorite because he is always doing good at school. one day, when i was returning home from the mall because i forgot my credit card, i entered the house and i saw my son at the backyard swimming pool masturbating and he is inserting a big pin in his butt... i was shocked, and i thought "is my son gay"? is it normal for boys to put things in their butts and masturbate? im really worried... ↓
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| Name: mycountryheart | Date: Dec 15th, 2007 5:09 PM |
| Hello, well honestly I don't think it's normal but some guys (straight guys) like that kind of stuff. But I'm bi so yeah it's different. ↑ |
| Name: lindalu | Date: Dec 16th, 2007 10:11 PM |
| Lol!!! I don't think he's gay. What I do think is that he found that pleasure spot in the rectum just below the prostate. If pressure is applied to that spot while masturbating it can deliver much more sexual pleasure. Don't worry, because he discovered that spot does not mean he is going to be gay. ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: Dec 27th, 2007 9:34 PM |
| your not meant to have favourites.. how do you think your other child feels............ Christ.. ↑ |
| Name: youngman | Date: Jan 5th, 2008 6:30 PM |
| The favorite thing caught me off gaurd, but as for you son masturbation habits. It is important for children to feel safe. Did you expect your son to start masturbating, if so then really you should not be shocked. The thing with injecting something into his anus is for pleasure. It has little to do with sexuality for now. The most important thing now is to let your son know how you feel about him doing in the pool. Give him some boundaries. Where he can and that it is OKAy with mom is more important than anything else. You do not want to walk into the living room one night and see him at it, but if he locks his door than it is okay. I would have felt much more at ease in my house if I didn't need to sneak around. As far as the gay thing, You need to ask yourself will I still love him if he is, because that is all that matters to him. ↑ |
| Name: caucajun32 | Date: Jan 30th, 2008 2:13 AM |
It's just about experimentation at his age. My sister and I used to masturbate together when we were both teens and she used to put her hairbrush handle in her butt, while masturbating.
Did the fact that she put an object up her butt make her gay, no, not at all, it was her way of giving herself pleasure.
Ask your self, if it had been your daughter that you saw with an object up her butt, would you have came up with the same question ? If not, ................ why ?
So why in the world would you think your son is gay ? ↑ |
| Name: oilybabyman | Date: Feb 8th, 2008 3:19 PM |
| i was beating it the other night and bent my penis at a 90 degree angle and now it won bend back. it hurts really really bad and i need some help....... i cant go to the hospital there is a warrant out for my arrest.... plz help me ↑ |
| Name: playmatex3x | Date: Feb 16th, 2008 4:47 AM |
| cut it off oilybabyman because its not like u get any. and nobody cares. ↑ |
| Name: atalanesta | Date: Oct 9th, 2008 9:49 PM |
| i think normal a guy put thing in her ass well when im younger i use to put cucumber in my ass cause is feel good ↑ |
| Name: Charles | Date: Oct 11th, 2008 7:51 AM |
| The child needs to be disciplined. If such habits are stopped the child's structure in life will change with him. If he has more rules and such he can become a more secure and safer human being, As for being gay, i doubt that that is the case. He is just learning to experiment with his sexuality. The problem is that he might end up experimenting with someone else which could result in much larger problems. ↑ |
| Name: confused kid101 | Date: Feb 20th, 2009 2:28 AM |
You shouldn't have a favorite. how would you fell if your parents came up to you and said," we like your brother/sister more. sorry." If you dont catch on to that, what if your other child found out that you said that you liked his/her brother better than them. They would feel terrible and that could have conquences.
On that topic, I am gay and I dont know for shure if he is or isn't, but just tell them that if they are gay, you will still love them just as much and that there is nothing wrong with being gay. ↑ |
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