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i have been browsing through varoius topics and i am shocked at the responses from mothers and older women... all of the responses are telling the young girls to grow up, be mature, respect our parents, get a life, go to bed or someting along those lines... dont any of you remember your youth? were you perfect? cause if all of you were so and are so perfect why is it that us CHILDREN are so bad obviously the role models cannot be too fantastic! put yourself in our shoes and remember what it is like being our age.. do you know the saying like mother like daughter ? ↓
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| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Sep 12th, 2006 6:12 PM |
Omg if i could
i would clap for you
Bravo ↑ |
| Name: lindalu | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 10:00 PM |
| You know I was just talking to another ladie in another forum about the axact thing you have said. She was telling me how this 13 year old said she wanted a baby, and every one was telling her to grow up! I dont find the point in telling a 13 year old to grow up! the problem is that..... she is a child who obviously has no clue what she wants, if she did she certaintly wouldnt want a baby! So ya, I agree with you! ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 10:14 PM |
What would you suggest people tell these girls?
"Yeah, be silly. Have lots of sex. If you get pregnant have an abortion. Eat lots of junk. Starve yourself. Show off your t*ts whenever you go out. Pick your spots. Do everything a boy tells you to. Swear at your parents whenever you have the chance. Torture your younger siblings.....etc.....etc......etc......"
Yeah, great........ ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 2:06 AM |
| Maybe have more of a discussion instead of having all the superior answer. Like Honey there are so many demands to being a mother . Its not all about the baby being cute. they are fussy and demand alot of attention. Enjoying your childhood is what is important. of corse this seem a bit rediculous even discussing why a 13 year old should want a baby but what I trying to say is comunicate with the child not dictate. Thats when we loose there attention. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 2:08 AM |
| now if I remember this if my kids say it...it would be more like what the H----Are you nuts.LOL ↑ |
| Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Sep 16th, 2006 12:58 AM |
| I know I didn't do everything my parents told me to do and didn't take alot of the advice they gave me but i turned out ok ↑ |
| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Sep 21st, 2006 2:48 PM |
No one really takes the advice our parents give you, i dont i wanna do the stuff for myself,
also Atomic all that stuff you said, did you do that a teenager ?
cause the way you worded it sounds like you did. ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 21st, 2006 8:55 PM |
| No, I didn't do things like that when I was a teenager, but I know plenty of people who did. ↑ |
| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 3:11 PM |
| Name: Steph | Date: Sep 23rd, 2006 11:37 AM |
| well if there are so many things to be careful of when having a baby then maybe you should give us the right advice and maybe we would get somewhere... stop blaming us and start to give us help... and also layne do you know how traumatic an abortion is its f*cked and i know ive been there and never have or will get over it and i regret it everyday... and yes we will do wat we want if it makes us happy and we are comfortable wats wrong with that if we make mistakes we will learn and we are in this world for that reason to take risk to be happy... the ones that turn out the worst are the ones with no support and dont ever take risks .. so think about it carefully we are here for a good time not a long one.. ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Sep 24th, 2006 5:41 AM |
| Steph why are you in an adult chat room for mothers complaining about us. If you don’t like it here, please feel free to leave and go to a Childs chatroom where you belong! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Sep 25th, 2006 12:02 AM |
| We just want to help prevent you from making some of the mistakes we made.Perhaps the words don't always come out right but we are just trying to prevent you from taking the hard road since some of us have been down it ourselves. We just don't always come off with the right tone,sorry about that. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Sep 25th, 2006 12:06 AM |
| I could get more into detail about what my life was like but I don't want to be judged so I'd rather not. But basically now that I'm older and have learned things the hard way,if i could go back in time knowing what I know now,I would change ALOT! ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 3:15 AM |
| HEY STEPH. WHAT DID I EVEN SAY TO HAVE YOU SPEAK TO ME IN THE MANNER YOU DID. MABE YOU SHOULD LEARN TO READ BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX. ↑ |
| Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 11:28 PM |
| Steph if you insist on being a bitch about it please leave there are other places for you to go. ↑ |
| Name: nicole jones1 | Date: Oct 2nd, 2006 4:02 PM |
| Rain is right - This website isn't for those type of issues. You should really, for your sake, take them to another site where people WANT to hear them instead of here where you already know before you submit them that we don't. That's just kind of asking for it. ↑ |
| Name: Steph | Date: Oct 12th, 2006 2:17 PM |
| I AM NOT POINTING ANYONE OUT AND MOST OF THE PEOPLE HERE THIS IS NOT TARGETED AT SO SORRY IF I OFFENDED YOU.. BUT I HAVE READ SOME AWFUL COMMENTS AND THEY UPSET ME .. AND LAYNE IT WAS ABOUT THE 13 YEAR OLD THING I TOOK OFFENCE TO IT BECAUSE SHE MIGHT NOT AHVE ANYONE TO SUPPORT HER OR ANYWAY OUT OF THE SITUATION.. AND I DONT AHVE A SUPERIOR ANSWER BUT I AM JUST STATING MY POINT OF VIEW.. SORRY IF YOU TOOK OFFENCE ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 3:45 PM |
Try putting yourself in your parents shoes!
Ypu will understand when you have children of ytour own! ↑ |
| Name: pj754 | Date: Oct 20th, 2006 4:00 AM |
| As a parent, it's a very difficult job. There is no manual to follow by, it's all on a day by day basis. Not all children/young persons are bad but some children/young persons choose not to follow simple morals. One even two generations ago, children were whipped for bad judgment. Now a days, if a child is behaving badly by doing whatever they want...show disrespect, do drugs, have sex, swearing, wearing provacative clothing to show off their bodies, etc....and us parents reprimand them for doing such things, they rebel and threaten us with abuse. Parents try very hard to explain to their children about not doing such things because they don't want their children to make the same mistakes as they did. For example: I used to drink alot of alcohol when I was a kid but I never did drugs. I didn't want to do drugs because I was afraid I would get hooked on them and become a junkie. That was something I chose not to do. So, if I explain to my own children not to do the things I did, it's teaching them good morals to follow by for them to grow up with good values and teach their children the same. Honestly, even though I talk with my children about parties and sex, it's not a guarantee that they won't try something once and experience all the time. Plus, when we were kids, the laws were different than they are now. So, today, when children get into serious trouble, it's not as easy to get out of as it use to be. If children want to be treated like an adult and do adult things, then they should be able to accept the consequences for their actions. Alot is based on good moral judgments which most parents pray for their children to have. As parents get older, we become more wiser and have regret for some of the things we did when we were younger, we just don't want our children to have to go through the same kinds of pain and heartaches that we had. ↑ |
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