| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:22 PM |
| But it's the way it is! ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:24 PM |
| ok Im back I recruting everyone to joinus in pets. we'll see if they come. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:25 PM |
| have you talked about AA for your hubby ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:25 PM |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:25 PM |
| I have a brother that just cant stop drinking he is 47 ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:26 PM |
| Oh Layne,he has been to in patient re-hab 3 time in his life and countless AA meetings,he just chooses to drink. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:27 PM |
| drinking is his passion! ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:27 PM |
| he cant drive either and he put off all the counseling and paying his fines till the last minute. he lives with my folks and its causing a real hardship on them. My mom stresses ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:28 PM |
| Im really sorry to here that ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:28 PM |
| Why doesn't she kick him out? ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:29 PM |
| Not that that would stop her from worrying about him. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:30 PM |
| It's hard to live with alcoholism in your life when you aren't a drinker yourself. I drink a couple of times a year but that's it. My husband drinks everyday. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:31 PM |
| It's sad because his drinking robs us of a better life but he can't see that. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:32 PM |
| I should've married better! ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:32 PM |
| because he is hanging out with my 24 yr old son and she is affraid he will go live with my son and his girl friend. he has already asked to live there. and he is dragging my son down. but my son has to realize this. I hate my Brother for doing this to my son. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:33 PM |
| I know it does. my first husband was a drinker ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:34 PM |
| when you decide you have had enouph you'll leave. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:36 PM |
| If i had more self esteem for myself i would probably get myself out of the whole situation. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:37 PM |
| Layne,does your son drink with his uncle? ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:37 PM |
| actually what split up my first marriage was he cheated on me. It wasnt the drinking that made me leave. But in the end I was glad even though I was very crushed at the time. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:39 PM |
| Yes he does and they both work in a Bar. but my sons girl friend said my son isnt drinking as much. so I hope he realizes. he is only 24 so I keep hoping its a faze (SP) ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:41 PM |
| Maybe he will have to get a dui before he really wakes up and realizes what problems alcohol causes. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:42 PM |
| Money problems,transportation inconveniences.... ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:42 PM |
The union pacific rail road was looking for engineers and i wanted Brandon my son to apply and get out of that bar but he hasnt. You can lead a horse to water.It would of been a real future for him and he would get out of that bar.
he's the bar tender and he is cute. he is insecure about the rail road I think ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:45 PM |
| yah thats what my mom is afraid of that he will get picked up. He drives 27 miles to work from his town to where the bar is. so really its a matter of time. the county they live in has the highest DUI rates in the state of Iowa too. i pisses me off that they drink and drive. But you cant tell em. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:46 PM |
| I think some people like being bar tenders because it makes them feel like they are at a party! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:47 PM |
| I hope your son never causes an accident due to drinking. If he does he will for sure be woke up then I'd imagine. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:48 PM |
| my mother in law doesn't drink now but she did for a long time and she drank and drove all the time. Sometimes I wonder if she ever hit and ran because her car has dings and dents all over it! ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:49 PM |
| It would get old though and at times brandon gets sick of it. But on the other hand he doesnt leave either. he'll wake up one day and say Im done.But he has to be the one that is fed up. I try not to focuse on it to much. But he doesnt live with me so i can put it out of my mind. Its my mom i feel for she has ,y Brother is her face everyday. Then she calls me to vent. I listen because Im her sounding board. But I know what ever my Brother is doing my son is too. itsucks big time. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:51 PM |
| If she had ever hit anyone,it would not surprise me. There have been times when she said she didn't remember driving home!and there was a time when she said she ran over a median in the road and messed up her car. Sometimes I wonder if it really was a median or if it was a person!? ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:51 PM |
| Does your mother inlaw say anything to your husband about quiting? ↑ |
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