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please help me i do not no what to do i am 3 months pregnant please help i am not joking. ↓
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| Name: MyBestAdvice | Date: Sep 24th, 2006 11:35 PM |
First things first, ANY reply that call you names...ignore them, that is ignorance on thier behalf.
Have you told your mom yet? First thing you'll need to do is see a doctor, they can be a great help. If you live in the US, contact your local health department, they can help you find a doctor. IF you decide to keep the baby then sign up for WIC, it will help with proper nutrition.
From personal experiance...stay away from Planned Parenthood, I found them to push abortion on women/girls. It is ultimately YOUR choice if you keep the baby, place it for adoption, or God forbid, chose an abortion.
God bless and be with you. ↑ |
| Name: goodmoommy2be | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 1:15 AM |
| Hello, Im 14 and 4 months pregnant believe m this is scarey but look up to what good is coming ↑ |
| Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 3:30 AM |
| Holy crap your 12 what the hell are you doing having a sexual relationship with someone? You need to sit down with your parents or gaurdian and let them know. Also talk to a family doctor, or councellor. It comes down to your decision i guess, make sure you do what is right for this child if you do decide to keep it. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 7:00 PM |
| 12 and pregnant is just rediculous! Obviously your parents had better things to do with their time than raise you up properly! You need to find someone to take over raising you and your baby. Maybe you have a relative who wants to be a real parent to you and your baby. You are going to need lots of help and guidance. ↑ |
| Name: LuckyMom | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 6:16 AM |
Lizzi-
You need to chill. You must be one hell of a parent that you can condemn others for the actions of the children. Sometimes, believe it or not, kids do BREAK RULES. ↑ |
| Name: vanilla | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 6:21 AM |
| HEY SWEETIE I DONT REALLY KNOW WHATS GOIN ON BUT ALL I CAN TRULEY SAY IS THAT YOU SHOILD TRY PRAYING BABY TRUST ME IT WORKS! IF YOU NEED ENEYTHING ELSE LET ME KNOW:) GOD BLESS ↑ |
| Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 7:09 AM |
| oi..come on now she is 12 !!!!! 12 !!!!! she should be out playing with barbie dolls not screwing the neighbourhood. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 4:04 PM |
| LuckyMom, my son doesn't drink,smoke,do drugs,or have sex. He gets very good grades,and is looking forward to graduating highschool and taking some college classes. I have raised him with love and good discipline and his actions are the result of that,so I'd say yes,I am a good parent and have done a great job of bringing him up right. There is no way that if a 12 year old has the right parenting that she will end up pregnant,NO WAY!!!!! I don't believe that for one second. However you're entitled to your own opinion as is everyone else. This one is mine though. ↑ |
| Name: zoeee | Date: Sep 29th, 2006 1:20 PM |
| thats harsh. yes 12 year olds should be out playing ad its appalling to think of one having a child but she has came on here asking for help, not to be put down, she will recieve that everywhere else. this would be hard enough on her without such negative remarks. such comments aren't helpfull when a girl is unsure of what to do and they may affect a decision that she'll regret later on. i can somewhat understand the parenting part as my parents have always known what i am doing and who i am with, even now at 18 and living in another state my mother knows my every move and i have also never done drugs or smoked & graduated high school with honours but i have done this out of love for my parents, yet despite this and despite never needing to myself, i have learnt that it is quite easy to make your parents believe your somewhere your not and we all make mistakes. the neighbourhood comment however is disgusting. after all we don't know the full story, it could have been her first time, rape, anything. is 12npreg going to reply but? ↑ |
| Name: jplaw0821 | Date: Oct 9th, 2006 4:33 AM |
| First of all, disregard the attacking comments made to you. I agree that sex is not something by far you should be doing at your age, you are still way to young. But, you did and you are here for help not badgering. Honey, you need to talk to your parents first, they can be the best guidance for you right now. This is a very big decision for you and you cannot make this decision on your own. If you cannot talk to your parents for any reason, talk to a school counselor or someone close to you that is an adult. I know this is really scary for you, but this is your first step to taking responsibility, you need to talk to someone and decide what is best for you at this point. No matter what, please practive abstinence until you are older and hopefully married, sex is a serious act. Okay? Please feel free to email me if you need to talk. But please please find someone you trust to talk to about this. ↑ |
| Name: Princess8451 | Date: Oct 10th, 2006 9:19 PM |
| Consider getting an abortion ↑ |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Oct 14th, 2006 9:56 PM |
wow some of you are really mean! who are you to judge her and call her parents wen you dont no her. shes come here for help and advice so thats what we should give her!
you need to talk to someone, family friend doctor?
dont do this by yourself hunni. ↑ |
| Name: decembersdiva | Date: Oct 22nd, 2006 5:36 PM |
hey I will love to help you write me at [email protected] or call 845-313-8864 dont listen to these stupid people on here trying to make you feel bad sweetie
Ayana ↑ |
| Name: friend17 | Date: Oct 23rd, 2006 2:12 PM |
| Go talk to your mother or close relative. Even if your scared. They can help you make decisions. Your 12 years old. You have your whole life head of you. It's not the end of the world it's just begining. If your affraid to talk to your mom. Talk to a school nurse. It will make you feel better. ↑ |
| Name: Jewel | Date: Oct 23rd, 2006 3:02 PM |
| Honey, you need to tell someone. i know you are scared but you HAVE to. The longer you leave it, the less chance you will have to make a decision about what you are going to do. This is one of the biggest things that will ever happen to you and you need support. And dont listen to them, praying wont fix it or make it go away. Having a baby will change everything in your life hun. It makes everything a challenge. You cant be ready. Abortion isnt a lovely thing but you need to think about how the rest of your life will be. ACT NOW. Be Brave, i know you are. GOOD LUCK X ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Oct 23rd, 2006 4:12 PM |
| Sit down and talk to your Mom. Talk to her about everything.....Pregnancy, if you have felt neglected so turned to boys to fill the void? Talk to her....... ↑ |
| Name: ELAINE | Date: Oct 23rd, 2006 4:25 PM |
Hello there i just can't not beleave at 12yrs old your pregnant it's just a shock but whats done is done. You must understand that you have a baby growing in you now and you need to take real good care of your self you can do it you just need to talk to some one so that you can get the right health care soon because you said your 3mths already the first three months are so important.
You no if i was your parents i would be upset but mad NO because it's up to me to take care of you and i would be at fault. Abortion would be out of the question i'd help you raise it giving it up i don't know if i could do it but everyones different.
If your in California here is the WIC number 1-800-852-5770.
We are all here for you. This is just part of life. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Oct 23rd, 2006 4:27 PM |
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