I just found out last night that my ex is planning on going back to cambodia..but that he is planning on being back before I give birth...Basically the reason he left me was because he meant a girl over there back in April when I first found out I was pregnant. So know he wants to back and get to know this girl and see if she is the real thing and possibly marry her. I'm due in 3 months! We were together for 4 years. I told him I think he's being selfish and that he doesn't care how this is gonna affect his son's future. We had a long talk about our relationship and we both agree that we both did things wrong in the relationship. And I heard from his friend that he still has feelings for me but can't stop thinkin about how bad our relationship was and he doesn't want to go back to that...but yet he is willing to scarifice loosing me for good just to see if life is better with this girl when it could be better with me...And I told him about child support and getting a lawyer and it he got all defensive and said why you know I'm gonna help out and that he cares about the future and he wants to be at the birth and not to worry about any of the financial stuff.How do I deal with all this. It would take a long time for this new girl to move over here. He even said he would have to get a job so he has prove of income...like he's gonna put all this extra effort into her and not his own son! This girl is most likely gonna say anything to make him feel good about it so she can come to the states and get money from him...she has nothin and she tells him to do what is best. What kind of girl would stick with him knowing he has a baby on the way? I told him prove me wrong that your gonna be more responsible when the baby arrives? What can I do to get over this?
Sorry I just needed to vent. Just when I think I'm doin better this just tears me down..I know I must be strong but life sucks right now. ↓
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