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Name: Brandy

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I just had to tell my very over-controlling and immature baby's father to leave. I am feeling very alone and hopeless. He says that since I won't be with him, I don't exsist and neither does the baby , this hurts. I just can't handle being controlled all of the time, but I feel very guilty because he wouldn't have left no matter what but I told him to leave. Please can anyone give me some insight or if anyone has been through this please answer back. I feel very alone in my situation. ↓

Name: Liz | Date: Mar 12th, 2006 6:39 PM

Tell him that you don't want him to leave you just want his controlling ways to stop, maybe he will be willing to work on it. If he's not abusing you mentally, or physically I'd give it a go, but under no circumstance go back with him if he is abusive you have a baby to protect. Good Luck. ↑

Name: Katie | Date: Mar 14th, 2006 2:09 AM

Hi Brandy,
I am a single 26yr old mother of six. i left my ex for cheating on me and he hasnt even seen our 5mth old baby. i think you made a very wise choice. nobody deserves to be treated badly and it sounds like you were. I know at times you may feel lonely or scared, i think at times all of us single parents do, but if you ever need to chat your welcome to email. My address is [email protected] ↑