First off, let me say Congrats on the soon to be arrival of you baby. You mentioned that your baby's father is refusing to take a DNA test... what you need to do (after the baby is born), is go straight to court. Becaused the courts can ORDER him to take the test, and he can't say no.
I don't think it would be a good idea for you to have people start emailing and IM your baby's father. I think that this will cause alot of problems for you. You can't force a man to be a daddy. That's someone that he has decides that he want's to do on his own. But make sure soon after you baby is born that you take him to court to get a DNA test, and to file for custody (if he does not want to be involoved you need to get full custody), and to recieve child support.
I can pretty much tell you, that if he is already dening the baby (before it's born), he is not going to help you on his own free will. You need to protect your self and your baby.
I'm also a single mom (my little guy will be 3 in Oct), and I have been a single mom since I was 6 months pregnant. And by no means has it been easy, but I wouldn't change anything. I would go through all the heartache I have been through, just because of my son.
If you would ever like to talk, feel free to email me ([email protected]). I wish you all the best with your delivery. One bit of advice though (concerning the delivery)...GET AN EPIDURAL, don't try to be a super woman. HEHE :) ↑ |
| Go file Child Support and the courts will make him take a DNA test and he will have to pay if He does not show up to take the test he will automatically be put on child support. You need to check you court system Forget him he has to b a dad wether he wants to or not ↑ |
