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I'm 23 and I'm 6 weeks pregnant just today. My bf and I live together and we've been constantly fighting with eachother for the past month and I feel like I'm starting to get ill from all of the stress. I've been extremely irritable lately and I feel like I am not able to communicate to him my feelings and my frustrations, because he never "listens". He's 31 and is in the AF and is extremely black and white. He tells me being pregnant is not an excuse for me to be so easily upset, and his reasoning is because he's known a lot of women who've been pregnant and they never acted like me. I know every pregnancy is different and every woman is different but my response to him was he never lived with any of those "other women" before either, so he doesn't really know what they're like. I'm tired of the fighting. I'm worried about my health and our relationship. I love him very much and we've talked about getting married but he acts like such a know-it-all and he can be very immature. We got into a fight tonight because I was talking to a guy friend of mine, and he told me to stop talking to him. When I told him I wasn't doing anything wrong he then went and called up one of his "girl" friends to get even with me. And 2 minutes after the yelling match he asks me to come sit next to him and cuddle. I don't know what to do. I feel alone, even though I'm not, because I don't know how to talk to him. All I want is for him to respect me and treat me like the person he says he's so much in love with. ↓
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