| Being drunk does not give him the right to lay a hand on you. Once this gets started, 9 chances out of 10 it won't stop. Move on with your baby and find someone who will love you and your baby without violence. This is unacceptable, period. If you can afford to stay in your home, do so. Best wishes. ↑ |
| These things get complicated because you shouldn't have a child out of wedlock and you should not be living with the man either. So no, unless you marry him you should not go back. And yes, you would be a fool to marry this man. So you need to find something to make money at home or go back home to your parents so you can raise this child. You should not be in school all day neglecting this little one who needs it's mommy,. You see, the issue isn't you here, it's the child's welfare and well being at stake and your sin has already gotten you and little off to a bad start. These situations don't improve they only get worse unless you do what's right. I have a Friend who can set you free from all your troubles, if you'd like to get to know Him write me back. ↑ |
| Please don't listen to littlemom, she isn't living in the 21st century. My advice you is to not go back with your ex. You have to think about your child and if your ex hits you, you never know what will happen to your son. I think you need to take a breather and look at the situation, you said you didn't want to go back. Don't do it because of the child. You don't need to live with your ex for him to be a father. I think your best bet would be to maybe work on things, it doesn't sound like you want to get back together. I know a couple who are terrible for one another, they stayed because of their son. They are not together now and it is for the best, this way the child doesn't see mommy and daddy fighting. Good luck and if you need to talk let me know. ↑ |
