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Hi my son is 14 months old his 38 year old father has never seen him or supported him. We lived together for a little over a year. And once I became pregnant with my son he completely changed. He went back to his mother for a short visit and came back with herpies. I refused to have intercourse with him and he tried to force himself on me. So a month later I put him out . Even though I was three months pregant, I just couldn't take anymore of the lies and crazy behavior. I didn't think he would be finicially supportive from his previous track record with his older child. His mother was taking care of her. After my son was born he begged for forgiveness. Which was just more lies. I found out he was still sleeping around with several women and one in particular was still in school. I told him that he could never live or stay in my home again, but he was welcomed to see him. He rarily callled, and when he it it was to complained about his daughter's mother boyfriend, or his daughter, or his mother etc. Eventually he stop calling all together by the time my son was six months old. I've been debating whether to file for child support. His mother had him declared metally disable when he was a teenager. I would not say he is mentally disable because he most certainly knows right from wrong but chooses to do wrong and he even tries to cover it up. His own mother has said to me infront of him that she hates boys and she never wanted a boy and always wanted a girl which is why she will sue him for custody if he ever tries to take his daughter from her. My sons father lives with his mother and he has a problem keeping a steady job. He has also and still migt be hooked on perscription drugs like oxicodin nd vicodin. When we lived together the only time I got be alone was when he was at his doctors and they said I couldn't come in. Or if I could get to the bathroom and turn the shower on until he'd pick the lock on the door. And now he called and said he wanted to come back and get married. Of course I told him no and then he said he doesn't think my son is his because he always looks different in hs pictures. I really don't want my son to be around such poor roll models. And if I pursue childsupport his father could get visiting rights. Also his daughter put a knife to my six old son's throat. She saw her mother stab my son's father in the chest with a butcher knife and no one in their family feels she needs counseling. I really could use some help. ↓
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