| Name: Hiddy | Date: Nov 11th, 2006 6:50 AM |
If you have your baby and your freaking out..... talk to someone immediately.
Also, pre partum depression is big too. If your pre, your going to be post depressive. Some women even have to take antidepressants DURING the pregnancy. ↑ |
| Name: marija | Date: Nov 11th, 2006 6:59 AM |
| god almighty you just have to be a smart arse dont you...Yes i know you can get depression before 2 weeks, but as alot of doctors and mothers know it can just be hormones adjusting which is why they say to give it a bit more time....they call it the 3 day blues. i am no expert...never said i was ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Nov 11th, 2006 7:14 AM |
Yeah, I know everything, just ask me.
Also you can get post natal depression up until the child is 5 years of age too. ↑ |
| Name: marija | Date: Nov 11th, 2006 7:19 AM |
| i didnt say you knew everything...far from it ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Nov 11th, 2006 7:21 AM |
| go away....your giving me a headache ↑ |
| Name: marija | Date: Nov 11th, 2006 7:22 AM |
| good luck 13itchy hope you feel on top of the world when you give birth and there after ↑ |
| Name: marija | Date: Nov 11th, 2006 7:24 AM |
LOL....good
maybe you will rethink next time before you become a smart arse...doubt it though ↑ |
| Name: Ayame | Date: Nov 11th, 2006 9:06 AM |
| Well I'm married, BUT the thing with me is that my husband is in Iraq and WILL be for a whole year, so I'm pretty much a single mom for a year, from her birth till he gets back.. ↑ |
| Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Nov 11th, 2006 10:26 AM |
That sucks Ayame...i think thats worse then being a flat out single mum..because you do have someone that wants to be there for you and the baby..and you and your child are sitting at home waiting for him.
Heart goes out to you!!!
I'm sure i will be fine!! but all the extra good luck wont go astray :D thanks! ↑ |
| Name: Ayame | Date: Nov 12th, 2006 7:10 AM |
| Thanks ! That means a lot, even though a lot of people say it, they normally don't sound so.. sincere. Haha. ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Nov 14th, 2006 2:32 PM |
| can i tell you somthing seriously i wish i was a single mum somtimes its alot harder with my bf around a mean were not accually a proper couple we argue all the time and its so hard your lucky your baby wont be brought up in arguments ↑ |
| Name: eighteen | Date: Nov 24th, 2006 5:13 AM |
oh man u totally sound like me...my ex left me after i found out i was pregnant and i couldn't believe it ya know...and my son was born in june and his father lives in a duff city but he won't bother with us...and the last thing he said to me before i left his house was "DON'T TELL HIM ANYTHING BAD ABOUT ME" i wanna say i love my sons father...but i think its just because after everything that happened i did get one great and beautiful thing out of our relasionship and thats my son...ur realize that i promise and if u wanna talk email me at [email protected]
take care ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 4th, 2007 12:15 PM |
| Ayame--Are you now posting under Aya? ↑ |
| Name: tinkerbell | Date: Oct 24th, 2007 7:20 PM |
| im in the exact same position as u except my boy is 10 months now and hes never seen his father is very heartbreaking at 1st to realise there never going to b involved u feel uve failed them in some way but dont give up once u have ur baby it will open up a whole new world to u i never wanted to have children at all but it jus happened like u and u jus got to pick urself up and get on with it if not 4ur own sake 4ur child once ur baby is born u wont ever look back its the best feeling in the world xx goodluck ↑ |
| Name: abbey50 | Date: Apr 22nd, 2008 11:28 AM |
| i am a single mum with 3 kids which i thought id never have but once you have them they are your life its the most amazing feeling and sure everyone says you will find someone else maybe you will but maybe you wont but atleast you and your child will have eachother. My dad left me when i was born and my mum done the best job of raising me and my 3 sisters all by herself . as far as your friends go if they dont wanna support you thn they arent true friends there are many single mums out there you will find new friends who have kids themselves and know all about what you are going through . you will probably find it hard to start with but it will get easier .when your son gets older you just be honest and tell him that his dad left before he was born who knows you may find a really nice guy who would raise him as his own and he can be dad theres no greater thing than a mothers love im sure you will do fine if you need help with something i would be happy to give advice i have been a single mum for 9 yrs i have two boys and a girl .... goodluck w3ith ya baby ↑ |
| Name: youngzhang1982 | Date: Aug 27th, 2008 1:14 AM |
thanks for the message, i think you catch my attention is not just by your looking, i prefer the women has her natural beauty in their heart. i am an adult and i do not believe in true love, but i trust life-long marriage. so my wish is my future wife is never married before, if they have children, that is fine, we can raise them up together with my own children. oh, my hobby is walking, reading and enjoy the good food. actually, my plan is after my marriage, i will give my wife 50% my salary, if we have children. i will give her another 10%, i need keep 40% my salary is enough, maybe 20% to support my mum and dad later, i think i just belong to the middle class, one house and one boat, two or three car, own my own land and some restaurant business, i want to open my own sushi bar later in San Francisco area. anyway, life is short, i will try my best, work hard and glory the God, help more people. i think i believe in god since i am a postgraduate student in england nottingham, i need do two part time restaurant job to survive, pay my rent and pay my tuition fee, life goes the hardest way, every night when i finish my night shift job, i pass by one 700 years old church, jesus picture is just there on the window, i pray him to give me some peace in my heart, Jesus is always ready to listen and he is a great father. i think i will follow his rule whole my life, i never married and so far i have no children, but i do not want divorce, i can sign contract with my lawyer, if i divorce due to my family affair, i am willing to pay 80% my salary to my children as penalty fee, i believe i am the only few can do this in Seattle area, haha.....nice talk to you, if you want to meet, i think i have time next week, by the way, if you really want to go step further on our future relationship, i think i do not need bother to date other women, i believe i am a honest man and i am a good family man too.
best regards
young
ps: my resume
4748 19th AVE seattle, WA 98105, Tel: 206-816-5015 Email: [email protected] / Gender: Male
Education:
Ph.D in University of Washington, focus on organisation design and financial management. (January 2006- present)
Master degree in research (Mphil) in manufacturing engineering, manufacturing organization research group, Loughborough University, Leicestershire, England, UK. (Sep 2003- Dec 2005)
Dissertation topic: Building a boundaryless leagile manufacturing organization through HITOP method. Advisor: Professor Neil Burns (editor of IJPR) ( Email: [email protected] )
Master degree in Science (Msc) in Electrical engineering, University of Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England, UK (Sep 2002-Sep 2003) Thesis topic: Extra high voltage (EHV) power transmission control in China three Gorges project using Newton Raphson method and Mathlab computer iteration method. Advisor: Dr Dave.Thomas (Email:[email protected] )
Bsc in Mechanical Engineering, Dalian University of Technology, Dalian city, China (Sep 1990-July 1994) Thesis topic: Testing a new diamond cutting tool material performance in Japanese Sanyo Company through comparing with other traditional cutting tools. Advisor: Dr Hong Tao Zhang. (Head of cutting tools research group)
Experience:
Academic Research: I: I worked as a research Assistant at Wichita state university on the subject of Industry engineering. The main focus of the research is on lean and green manufacturing system design for Boeing Company in Wichita, Kansas. Since Boeing Company set the goal to be "100% lean and green company" in 2011, I as a researcher focused on waste management and energy conservation in order to achieve the goal. After years of experiment on a small motor workshop provided by private companies, we have achieved to reduce the waste and contamination by 35 percents. The quality of the motor increased by 25 percents by detail cleaning and better combustion technology.II: When I was completing my master in electrical engineering at University of Nottingham, I worked at fire-power station in England Nottingham city. I worked on power transfer through super-computer. The use of C++ and Java was needed and the station was responsible for providing power for more than three million people in the surrounding cities called East-Middle land area including Birmingham city, Nottingham city and south Manchester city.
Working experience:
1: Electrical engineer: Seattle Trident seafood company, help solving the seafood manufacturing line mechanical and electrical problem.01/2008-Present.
2: Manufacturing supervisor: Japan Mabuchi motor company in Hong Kong china, in charge of one plastic injection molding workshop following ISO 9002/ 14001 standard. (Sep 1994-Nov 2001) This company has worldwide reputation on mini DC motor products and its customers include Sony, Toshiba, Sanyo, Sharp and HP, Ford companies, through Japanese Just-in-time management, my workshop quality has been improved from 67 percent to 95 percent, on October 1999, my workshop quality reaches to 100 percent , because of this distinguish quality improvement, I won Tokyo silver medal for Quality improvement.Language: Fluent in English and Chinese. A little bit Japanese and Spanish and France language.
you can find my photo at www.hi5.com, user name is [email protected], password is 12345. thanks ↑ |
| Name: kelly | Date: Sep 12th, 2008 10:06 PM |
| omg iv just read all ur messages and u lot have put me of this web site u talk about being a single parent not to bitch ↑ |
| Name: jojo | Date: Jan 2nd, 2010 8:30 AM |
| Hi there just wandering what i shlddo to get support and help with my children aged 2 and 3,have family here but not very helpful,wld like to be able to have some regular breaks as i tend to feel overwhelmed exhaused and depressed at times-id be grateful for any advice? ↑ |
| Name: angelaowl | Date: Jan 22nd, 2010 2:41 PM |
| you can do it. i raised my son with out a father, the father will roll around sooner or later and wonder what yours lil one looks like . it takes a long waiting time and yes its hard to move on its been 19 months for me and i still cant find the right one. cause i always tought who wants a teen mother with a kid ? but if you think about it there are alot of fish in the sea you just dont give up and keeep searching :) your baby will have a dady one day, even if its not biological things will turn out :) good luck ↑ |
| Name: drakon | Date: Mar 8th, 2010 5:28 AM |
| where are the single father chats ↑ |
| Name: mamacat | Date: Mar 9th, 2010 7:58 PM |
| I am a single mother to a beautiful 2 year old daughter. I left her father a year ago because he really wasn't there for us. He would be gone for days at a time on a drunken binge. He complained that I didn't contribute enough money to the household. He always had his friends over at all hours for parties. I packed up and left him because even though I took his abuse I wanted more than anything to protect my child from that. I moved to a new state and lived in a shelter for mothers and children. Everyday is a struggle and sometimes I feel like I take 1 step forward and 2 steps back but I feel like I'm better off without my loser ex. Get whatever social services you can. join parenting support groups. You can file for child support even though he lives in another country. A lot of countries have agreements concerning child support. For me it's going to be easier to explain to my daughter that mommy and daddy couldn't get along than let her grow up with a jerk of a father. Good luck sweetie ↑ |
| Name: Amanda | Date: Mar 10th, 2010 12:37 AM |
| Hi, I am currently a single mom of a son. The best thing that you need to do is love your child, eventually he will ask about his dad (around school age) but for now it is just you. He will not know that he is missing anything for the first 2 at least. Being a parent is not easy but it is some much fun! ↑ |
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