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Name: misskity
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I need some pointers on how to get my love life back after babies. My husband is working two jobs right now and with the little time we do have together it is taking care of my twins. I do all of the cleaning and taking care of the babies, but I miss the time with my husband as well. I know it is hard to negotiacte the time between us all but I have got to do something. I feel like our love life is over. Please someone help.

Thanks, Melissa
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Name: Layne | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 2:42 PM
Do you have cell phones? what really works for me and my husband to spice things up is text,sex. Or just telling each other how much we want each other. Start in the morning and it can go on all day. ( when he has a break,we dont want him fired over the distraction.HA!) By the time he gets home you both will be ready believe me. It also really opened up comunication between us It is easier to text thoughts then say them sometimes. my husband is 11 years older then I. It takes more to get him going in that area. This worked like a charm. 

Name: misskity | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 5:46 PM
Layne:

Thanks for the tip. I will try it. Hopefully it will work. It is just so hard being a new mom of twins. I had them in April. They do keep me hopping. 

Name: Layne | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 6:09 PM
Oh my goodness! I bet you are busy. I have my oldest son and his girlfriend staying here for 1 week and she has a 2 year old. I forgot how much work it is to have little ones around. You have to watch them every minute. my youngest is 9. so them days are far gone. I think you are amazing for even wanting to make time for your love life. maybe a baysitter if availible go out to dinner make she there in bed when you return. Then you can focus on you sweet hard working hubby. 

Name: misskity | Date: Jun 29th, 2006 6:15 PM
Well, my hubby is good but I wish he had a different job paying more. But it takes two incomes now a days to support a family. But I have been told it does get easier as time passes by. 

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