Usually relationships break up for a reason. So I find it really hard when people say they are still friends with their Exes.
My first boyfriend was unfaithful to me, then when we split up he ran around telling everyone that I was unfaithful to him. (Which I was) but what about HIM!!!!
If I saw him again, Id probably ignore him.
The second one, alcholic scum bag womanizing prick, drank and stayed out till all hours of the night. Considered himself to be an entrupeneur but couldnt save a cent. I HATE this guy with a vengence. Id ignore him too!
How can you be friends with your EXES? ↓
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| Name: mommylj | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:10 PM |
| No, I couldn't. More out of respect for my DH. I wouldn't want him keeping in touch with an ex. I did have two of my exs to call me within 6 months of getting married (my mom had the nerve to give them my new number) and ask me to divorce my DH for them. lol ↑ |
| Name: maxieellis | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:12 PM |
| I could not ever. Just couldnt. I would not ever want my husband to "wonder". NOPE. I do have one friend, never dated him and have been friends for 25 years. He lives in alberta with a beautiful family of his own. We still communicate.....but its just always been, as it always has been. Friendly and respectable. ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:19 PM |
Well just because a relationship doens't work out...doesn't mean you can't be friends...YEs some I hate with a vengance as they did me wrong...but the ones I do stay friends with...we broke up because over time we realized that what we wanted out of life was different...MAbe because I am only 25 and my goals in life and what i want change as i learn more about myself...
When my ex husband and me broke up it was simply because over time we had changed...We tried to work things out...but we just knew that by staying together that ourlives wouldn't be fulfilled...We remain friends because we can...and we have a child..its easier for us to be this way then have to fight...WE don't hate each other...we just don't love each other....ITs different for all people.
I did have a bf that hit me and was worthless...is he my friened no way....but for the most part...most of my exs are my friends...partly because most of them are from highschool...and over time we all grew up...but as for my ex huisband who i was with 6 years...we just are friends ...I am sorry that you guys don't have that...But then again mabe i am an exception....cuz people do think we are wierd
And my new bf and him have become friends....as they both respect each other..and know that in the long run for us...its easier for us all to be this way for our sons sake... ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:21 PM |
| I see I am not in a majority....but thats okay...i understand all your views...its whatever works best... ↑ |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:22 PM |
I can and never will friends with mias dad. lol
but i still talk to all my other exs and write to one thats in prison. i dont hardly ever see any of them but i could be friends with them, i think its cause they were never anything super seriuos and i was young,
were as i was with mias dad 5 years and it was a nasty break up. = ] ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:26 PM |
yeah momo. Actually I think it would be easy to be friends with my husband in that situation, because we have a child together.
Yes Sarah, I was unfaithful to my first boyfriend, twice.
He thinks his poop doesnt stink and went on a campain to convince everyone I was a bad person because he thought I was whinging about him, which I wasnt. He HOWEVER was only caught out months after we split up. A friend of a friend of mine had actually slept with him while we were together and she told me.
I heard it from a lot of people and not ONCE did I bad mouth him. I did however start to when I realized how much he was bad mouthing me. ↑ |
| Name: SaRaH | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:29 PM |
| Ive never had a partner cheat on me phsycially.....i know if i did i would be FURIOUS ↑ |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:32 PM |
| oops that was supposed to say cant and never will be. lol ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:44 PM |
| Well....my husband cheated on me, before our daughter was born and you have NEVER seen a woman scorn like I was. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:45 PM |
| I get along with all x's. even the one I was married to. Im pretty forgiving after a while. matter fact my best friend is my x brother inlaw and he still calls me and we talk for 2 hours on the phone about 1 a month. and my x and his son came to iowa and stayed the weekend at our house. no problem. Im secure in my 2nd marriage. ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:46 PM |
| I ripped up my wedding dress, I scratched up a painting that I had given him for our anniversary and I smashed a ladro figurine on the floor. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:49 PM |
| my x cheated to hiddy and it was awful. I acted the same as you. but we were married very young he was 18 and I was 17 we divorced when i was 22. For my son we respect esch other nd over years are friends now. he told me not long ago he should have never treated me the way he did. he knows Im very loyal. ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:49 PM |
| We all spend holidays together...well next year might be different as his girlfriend wants to change things...she is having a hard time... ↑ |
| Name: SaRaH | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:51 PM |
| wow hiddy......i would of done more then that! i think you gave it to him easy...lol ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:52 PM |
| she might get over it. I always figure if someone is gonna cheat they will no matter what you do. your either loyal or your not. and if a marriage is strong you wont. If you do something else is missing. ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:54 PM |
He was in the US Sarah...lol
Not much you can do to him over the phone : ) ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:56 PM |
| But when it happens it hurts. I was a frickin maniac. I tryed to push him out of the moving car. hahah I wonder if he remembers that. damn that was 22 years ago. ...Im old :( ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:58 PM |
| wait 20 years ago Im 42. dont want to make any worse then it already is. ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:58 PM |
| Its different when its your husband. Ive had boyfriends cheat on me, like I said. It STILL hurts but when you have those vows behind you, it absolutely kills you ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:59 PM |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 12:02 AM |
| yes it does. I couldnt understand how he could do that. and then to our son. he cheated on Brandon too. That killed me. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 12:02 AM |
| yes it does. I couldnt understand how he could do that. and then to our son. he cheated on Brandon too. That killed me. I still have emotional scars from that. ↑ |
| Name: SaRaH | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 12:03 AM |
oh gosh hiddy! lol
be creative...you could of had sex with someone else and midway called him up and let him listen :) See there are SO many spiteful things you could of done :) mowaahha ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 12:03 AM |
| oops I pushed stop and it stopped and I added more to that post and it posted too. weird. ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 12:06 AM |
Layne...the only thing worse than that is if you had a child, I couldnt imagine.
If I had of done THAT....the marriage would be over! Now If I could have got my hands on the bitch he cheated WITH, that would have been ugly. ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 12:06 AM |
| He got her breast implants while he was seeing her....I would have popped them ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 12:10 AM |
| I almost kicked her butt. see my x worked at Mcdonalds he had just graduated from college and he was training for management. he started messing around with a 17 year old at work. I was 22. we had been married 5 years. anyway I almost called her parents. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 12:12 AM |
| breast implats wtf...are you still with him? ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 1:10 AM |
| yes Layne...I wasnt going to lose my marriage over some little tart ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 1:13 AM |
| well i hope her t*ts explode..... ↑ |
| Name: SaRaH | Date: Jan 10th, 2007 1:16 AM |
| lmfao tits explode AHHHHHHHHHAHAHAHAH ↑ |
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