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I am soo confused it's not even funny. I am with my baby's dad now and I love him more then anything and I know he adores me. But there's times where I just wish he'd grow up so much and stand up for things. Before I got in a relationship with him my last one hurt me real bad, he just up and left one day with no words no nothing, just left me. I didn't hear from him for months, then eventually he came onto msn one day and explained why he left. Basically he met someone else and they really clicked and what not. Cruel beyond beliefe, I was so in love with that guy, we had even planned on getting married we were so involved. Now my ex and i talk every now and then on msn and it always messes me up. I want to be able to talk to him casually and not feel this way anymore. It's been well over a year since my ex and i broke up. I don't know how to feel or what to do sometimes. It's hard when your ex is everything you ever wanted in a man (especially looks wise), older, taller, just perfect. My current bf is great too don't get me wrong, he looks really really young for 25 though but he treats me great, he loves me unconfitionally. I'm not doubting my relationship with my bf at all, just hate feeling messed up after i talk with my ex and needed to let it out. ↓
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| Name: wilsavanamom | Date: Jun 5th, 2006 6:28 PM |
| Stop talking to your ex! ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Jun 5th, 2006 6:55 PM |
| Yeah it may seem that easy, but there's times where i just can't help it...and i just needed to vent this morning. ↑ |
| Name: Tamekia KIlkenny | Date: Jun 15th, 2006 5:47 AM |
| [email protected] you can chat to me any time..... ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Jun 15th, 2006 11:18 AM |
| Thanks Tamekia, I appreciate that. Do u use msn? it can be abit easier to chat there. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Jun 16th, 2006 7:09 PM |
| Leave your ex where he belongs which is IN THE PAST!! He did you really dirty and you should want NOTHING to do with him.You claim to have a great guy now right? Well don't screw that up by talking with your ex. That jerk doesn't deserve the time of day from you and you should be wiser considering the way he left you. Do yourself a favor and completely lose the jerk before you end up losing the guy who really loves you because you are associating with the jerk! Make a pick,you can't have both! ↑ |
| Name: Julia | Date: Jun 16th, 2006 8:30 PM |
| I agree with everyone here, as hard as it is, you have to let him go! Think about it, you could cause just as much pain for your current bf, as your ex caused you! That would be horrible right? Cut all communication with your ex and enjoy your new beginnings with (which sounds like a wonderful man) your bf. This is my advice. Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: Pasha | Date: Jun 16th, 2006 8:41 PM |
| I know its easier said then done, but you have to try and stop talking to him... I'm sure you love your current bf, but when you've loved someone as much as you did love your ex, sometimes your heart can send you faul messages. that's how I see it it happens to me. As long as you keep talking to him you'll keep having that little feeling you get in your heart. Maybe block him from your msn and try as hard as you can not to talk to him. To help you maybe think about all the hurt he caused you, the heartache you had (that's what I did) and you'll see you'll be strong enough to let him go and I think within a month or so it will all be history. Did I help you Christina? Here's my msn: [email protected] Maybe you can talk to me anytime you feel the urge to talk to him!! I'm online everyday :-) ↑ |
| Name: Christina | Date: Jun 16th, 2006 9:05 PM |
| Hey girls, thanks for the advice and support. Thanks Pasha, I will add you, thanks for being there. I know i should but as Pasha said it's easier said then done. It's really hard, i know he did me wrong and that's what hurts the most and i tried for 6 months to find him and get him back...so much had happened. He acts so sincere and concerned about me and the baby and wants to just talk and my heart lights up in a small part when i talk to my ex. I don't want to loose my current bf i really do love him.. but thanks everyone. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jun 16th, 2006 11:28 PM |
YOU KNOW WHAT CHRISTINA. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS TO A WONDERFUL MAN. TO THIS DAY IF MY X HUSBAND CALLS OR i SEE HIM I GET THESE WHIMSICAL FEELINGS.
BUT YOU KNOW WHAT I DECIDED IT IS. THAT I DIDNT LIKE TO LOSE. HE LEFT ME FOR ANOTHER WOMAN AND BROKE MY HEART. HE WASNT EVEN A EASY MAN TO LIVE WITH VERY CONTROLING AND CRITICAL. WHEN i LEFT HIM I HAD A HUGE LOAD TAKEN OFF MY SHOULDERS. WE TRIED TO GET BACK TOGETHER MANY TIMES IN THE 5 YEARS WE WERE DEVORSED AND YOU KNOW HE HURT ME EVERYTIME. NOBODY LIKES TO BE THE BURNED ONE. EVEN AFTER ALL THESE YEARS I FEEL SCARES FROM THAT RELATIONSHIP. AND I THINK THEY ENJOY THERE EGO BEING STROKED BY US PINEING OVER THEM. MOVE ON HONEY YOU WOULD NEVER TRUST HIM AGAIN AND 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 IT WOULDNT WORK. I WOULDN'T TALK TO HIM ANYMORE AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. EVEN IF THIS BOYFRIEND ISNT THE ONE THERES A GUY OUT THERE THAT IS. ↑ |
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