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Hi Serina S---Hey, I'm doing fine. I posted under divorced family for you to email me. I had to make some changes(if you know what I mean) because I believe I have nosy family members spying on me. I didn't want to give them any incite at whatever I say. Please don't think I've forgotten about ya. I haven't. Things with my son are going so, so. He came back home but doesn't seem to be very happy here. Yet, this past week, he's changed. He seems to be very talkative and more responsive. When I asked my daughter what she thought, she said because him and his dad have been arguing alot and he seems to be bored at his dad's house. Maybe he's starting to realize that the rules I have in my home are not as bad as he thought they were. I still don't trust his actions. Maybe, he's only being nice because he knows Christmas is around the corner? I know, shame on me for thinking this but he's not been the most trust worthy person. I'm afraid he's still trying to play me like fool. He's fighting the idea of counseling but I'm not going to stop it just because he wants me too. He has issues he needs to talk out. I want him to be able to make conscious moral decisions without the influence of his father's crappy morals. Am I wrong in my thinking? I'm not saying everything I do or say is 100% correct but telling a 13 year old that he can do and say whatever he wants, really isn't the best option in my book. I forsee us going back to court over a custody issue again but this time I'm going to have all my eggs in the basket. I'm going to bury my ex and I mean deep!!!! Weeds won't be able to grow on his grave. I figure if I squirt enough round-up, the critters won't consider taking a tinkle. Anyways, how are you? How have things been with your family? Sounds like things are going good and I'm glad to hear it. Do you have big plans for the holidays? By the way, did I understand correctly that you finally bought a house? If so, that's wonderful. I'm unable to get on this thing everyday like I want to but when I do, it seems like I miss alot. Sorry. Well, you take care, respond if you can and have a great evening. ↓
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| Name: Serina S | Date: Oct 30th, 2006 5:38 PM |
| HI my dear sorry I just saw this ! I am so glad to chat with youthe otherday you are such fun!!! I know your son will grow to understand all of this in time ! Just keep up being the grerat Mom You are!!!!! XXXOOO ↑ |
| Name: tweetybird4 | Date: Oct 30th, 2006 7:54 PM |
| Thanks Serina---I have my good and bad days. Each day is always something interesting. It's getting to the point where I shouldn't expect anything different. I believe I'm being played like a fool because last night, I saw my son give his dad a huge, long hug and told him he loved him. That's something he hasn't done to me since he's been back at home. So, I believe he's doing all of this for a reason. There is a mouse in the wood pile somewhere and I plan to find it. Little do I know, it's a big ratt that needs to eat a box of decon(poision)!!! Oh, well, another day, longer hours, the clock still keeps ticking. Thanks for listening and commenting. I appreciate your concerns. ↑ |
| Name: Serina S | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 9:05 AM |
I do think he is trying. Ya know he should hug his DAd and love him. He will come around and do that to you too but remember he did not chose to be with you so ...he is gonna be mad at ya. Why don't yougive him a big hug and telll him you have been wanting to hug him but did not want to be pushey & could not wait for him any more. Loved to see his face...
Thank youfro the chat too you are a such a great Mom. I know at time none of us feel like we are but in reality you truley are! ↑ |
| Name: Serina S | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 7:45 PM |
Ya he sound like a real jerk fo rsure! Just keep doing what you are doing and the kids ...sorry to say..IN TIME will see .Ya know they most likley see already but want so much to believe he is doing it all for them Hey what ever the reason at least he is in there life even if it si for all the wrong reasons.The kids feel his presens.
My step kids Mother does not set good examples for the kids she is sleeping with her friends husband that has 2 boys. She swears like a truck driver and lets Samatha wear too short skirt and very low tops. for a 12 yr old. On her day off work she sleeps untill noon Because her boyfriend comes over everynight 10-1or 3 am( per Samantha) .She gets off work and sleeps untill8 pm then feeds the kids.
They know thing run diffrently in this house. We have alot more rules and chores but they are happy here .. now that they know what is expected of them.
I know things are hard and I am not trying to make light of it. I just feel thatthing will come to light sooner than later.
All my very best & try try not to let him get to you ...I know how that feels .. ↑ |
| Name: Serina S | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 7:49 PM |
I just typed this whole note to you & I get this
This is a duplicate post! Click here to get back
And everything I typed is gone. I will try again later GRRRRRR ↑ |
| Name: Serina S | Date: Nov 20th, 2006 8:03 PM |
How are you doing today ...Thing keep breaking in this house ...Keeps me running around . Samantha and I had a long long tlak un till she had no more questions about her mom and the stuff she saw ...Man What a weekend!
How about you? ↑ |
| Name: Serina S | Date: Nov 21st, 2006 12:41 AM |
Hey Tweety
If I do not get to chat with you haope you have a great thanks giving with your family!
XX Serina ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Nov 21st, 2006 12:57 PM |
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