So with three days to go before the wedding(2 now) a little under 20 people decide to let us know that they aren't in fact coming even after saying they were.
What the hell is wrong with people?
Has no one ever been to a wedding before?
Do they not realize that when you RSVP with a yes, arrangements are made to fit them into the mix.
Seating is thought of.
Food is PAID for.
Wine is PAID for.
A bigger venue was found and booked.
At this point it's not even the money aspect that bothers me the most, it annoys me more than anything.
The thing I think that bugs me the most is people's lame ass excuses for not coming.
I am so disappointed with my friends right now.
It's not like this is my birthday party or a housewarming party, this is my fucking wedding!
Car trouble, work, no money, school, broke up with boyfriend...just a few of the excuses.
People have literally known then when and where as far as what city the wedding is in since January. The hall was booked in April or May...plenty of time to save up a little money to come out for it.
Silas being born was the most important day of my life. As far as having the most important day of my life with friends and family around goes, the wedding would take that title and now my nearest and dearest friends aren't making any effort to be there.
What a sad realization to have right before a major milestone in my life.
I know it'll still be fun and I know it doesn't matter how many people are there because it's about Jason and I but it still sucks.
My friends(the ones bailing anyways) suck.
It doesn't help that I got my "lady troubles" today...makes me cry a whole lot easier. ↓
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