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things have changed and so has my computer, i wonder what happened to it. i cant type things in like usual and they just come up, ive got to type the whole thing in. hubby must be up to something! how is every one? my relationship is going down the drain! ↓
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| Name: Pasha | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:28 PM |
| Hi mama_ash how are you? ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:30 PM |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:32 PM |
| everything in my relation is sucking badddd, ive been really depressed! hubby didnt do anything for our anniversary. ↑ |
| Name: Pasha | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:35 PM |
| aww I'm sorry to hear this... Was it you that your anniversary was on valentine's day? ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:38 PM |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:38 PM |
| Name: Pasha | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:39 PM |
| I'm really sorry... Were you able to talk to him about it? Did you tell him how it made you feel? ↑ |
| Name: Pasha | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:41 PM |
| I'm not the right person to give you advice as I am myself in a dumb stupid not worth wasting me time and energy why am I still there relationship, but I'm wiling to listen if you want to talk about it ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:44 PM |
| yeah sorta, he said someone was supposed to let him borrow some money but it fell through. he could have went to the dollar store and got a 50 cent card or something or when he got paid on ftiday he could have got a card and a candy bar or something ya know! i hate him but i love him so much at the same time. im so hurt and yes he knows it but there are so many other issues. he never lets me talk to him without looking incredible bothered or walks away or whatever ya know? he is fighting a narcotic addiction and hes taking suboxone and maybe soon he will get better, like the man i married. i hope i can only pray! this all sucks so bad ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:45 PM |
| why is it they are treating us with no respect and have no graditude? ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:49 PM |
| you would think they would stop saying i love you and start showing it more. we love eachother but our finances are crazy as he spent every penny we had on pills and now his job does not pay enough to get us out of the hole we are in. i am trying to treat this like he came down with cancer or something. i would not leave if that was the case. ya know? ↑ |
| Name: Sarahhhh | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:52 PM |
hiya mama-ash...sorry to be rude and blunt..but getting something on your annerversary..is it THAT big of a deal] its a material object..50cent card or not.
You said he tells you he loves you, atleast he does that........does he do other things to you, for you to have such a love / hate relationship with him? ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:55 PM |
what exactly do you mean? like what kinda things?
i dunno i depends on what you mean, he does a lot of nothing really,damn it was valentines day and our anniversary, i didnt get nothing! i never do, i give give give and he puts nothing into the relationship! ↑ |
| Name: Pasha | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:56 PM |
| Yeah I totally understand when you say there are so many other issues...They don't seem to understand that the smallest gesture would make a difference. The card wirh sweet words or the candy bar wrapped a certain way... And even when you repeatly (sp?) tell them what bothers you they twist it around to make it as if you're wrong or they don't listen ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:56 PM |
| he could have made something too ya know? i made him cookies and a poem and the kids made a card for him ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:57 PM |
| yeah im the naggy bitch who complain about not getting anything out of the relationship. ↑ |
| Name: Pasha | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 11:59 PM |
| do you have small kids at home? Do you think you could find a part-time job to help? ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:00 AM |
| I would say this has something ti do with the treatment he is getting for the narcotics...Just weening off the drugs will make you edgy...hang in there...are you seeking some counseling? not only for DH but for you as well... ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:01 AM |
| 1 year on sunday boy ethan and a 4 year old girl, emily ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:01 AM |
| we both need some counceling i think but he refusses ↑ |
| Name: Pasha | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:04 AM |
| Girl I understand and I don't think you are nagging. Sometimes its nice to get something once in a while, doesn't need to be big its the gesture that counts. ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:04 AM |
| well he is slightly better now that hes not popping pills every 30 min but he was doing very well and now he sucks again! ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:05 AM |
| he could snuggle me sometimes or tell me he loves me first or treat me with respect or sleep in the bed, he doesnt because our kids do and he is pretty big so he is afraid he will role on them ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:11 AM |
| If he refusses..You go anyway It will help you sort things out... Maybe he'll come around...If he doesnt you will get support you need..Even family sometimes cant help in these situations..It takes a bias opinion... ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:13 AM |
| you are right but the problem is we have 1 car and no baby sitter close ↑ |
| Name: Pasha | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:13 AM |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:45 AM |
| ok sorry it trook awhile i hjad to wash like 50000 dishes! ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:46 AM |
| Name: anika_p | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:48 AM |
~mama ash~ While you were gone Sez acused you of being a fake~Did you know that?~
~anika~ ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:49 AM |
| take the baby with you...the counseler will understand...Do what you have to do...Maybe your DH will take a better look at you if he see's you taking charge... ↑ |
| Name: mama_ash | Date: Feb 21st, 2007 12:52 AM |
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