| Name: Emma | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 9:40 AM |
| heya you still here? whats up? ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 9:44 AM |
| im here now. you still about? ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 9:47 AM |
hey just read your other post,
im sorry but wow your mums being really mean aint she, everyone nos i have balzing arguements with my mum but she never would say anything about me being a mum... ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 9:50 AM |
its just this week she's lost it. She is never like this! I really dont understand. Nothing bad is happening in her life or ours as a familys. Everything was fine! She wanted me to move out with Paul, she was happy for us, she knew he was a lovely bloke and she really likes him and wanted the best for us.
She gave me her permission for us to marry. (I needed permission as I was under 18 and we were thinking initially to marry this year) Its just out of the blue. ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 9:56 AM |
there must be something shs not telling you... esp all these things shes been saying about the twins, its not right esp if its just come out of the blue??
everyone can see you have done amazing with the twins, well i do, with everything you have been through most people wouldnt have been able to do it,
maybe she just feels she loosing her little girl, cause i mean you have had o grow up quickly before your time aint ya, but youve handled it well she should be proud,
its a tough one this is. lol
maybe just stay out her way for a while for her to chill out then try talking to her and finding out the real reason she being like this. = ]
x ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 9:58 AM |
| me and her have never been that close. I was always closer to my dad and she to my sister. I am going to try and stay out of her way. Im not making any moves to resolve this. I did it last time. I trecked across town with my twin pram and 2 one week old babies to see her. This time, ill be in the estate opposite. If she doesnt make the effort to sort us out, its not worth sorting. I dont need her in my life that much. ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 10:02 AM |
| must be tough, even thou me and my mum argue like cat and dog, im sucha mummys girl, its pathetic. lol ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 10:03 AM |
| awww. Does she help out alot with Mia? ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 10:08 AM |
anyway, sorry love but im going to go to the creche for a bit. speak to you whenever lol
xxxx oh and Mia is growing up so fast! looking at your pictures and its hard to believe! ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 10:08 AM |
yer all the time, shes just had a week off work so i got some nice lie ins. lol
i never just dump mia on her but if i wanted to go out i no she will always have her for me, its kinda a 2way thing, when shes at work i keep the house in order keep on top of the washing and go and do the shopping and that, then when i was a bit of chill out time she will watch mia for a while. = ]
but mia loves her so much, she gets upset when shes not here. lol ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 10:09 AM |
i no its mad init,
speak soon, hope everything goes ok. = ]
xx xx ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 10:14 AM |
I cook for the family and tidy the house, I do the washing for us 2 and most of the time for mum liam and rachel. I go to school all day and dont really go offsite, I go tot he creche during my free lessons. My mum doesnt work. When i get home she carries on selling everything on ebay lol or doing her puzzles. She always says they are my responsibility as I chose to have them, so she does next to nothing for them. Occasionaly she'll watch them but usually only if theyr asleep or about to go down. Me and Paul's dates are usually only to my house where we can look after them or to places we can take them, or on Sundays when James has them.
I dont really understand why she's like teh way she is. She's always loved kiddies, especially from my twos age to like 4 or 5. But i dont know. I love her and im sorry things are this way. ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 10:22 AM |
i hope she see sense and sees how nasty shes being...
x ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Feb 27th, 2007 12:16 PM |
I hope so too. She's being really immature I think about it. Its just kind of weird. I have this feelingm it just feels odd, Im not going to go home to her and I dont know when im going to see her again really. Instead of walking for like 10 minutes like i usually do at the end of school, Ill have to get the bus from the school with the kids to where Paul's flat is and then walk 15 minutes from the bus stop. I just feel bad knowing that things are like this between em and my mum. I could never imagine saying or doing any of the things she has said and done to me.
I would never throw my daughter out, especially if she was pregnant. I just would be so different. And she is usually so different, that's what bothers me so much. I dont understand. lol ↑ |
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