| hey. im 18 was 17 when i got married, 16 when i got pregnant with my daughter and now im pregnant with numer two. all i have to sa is give it time, or try conseling. (sp?) it hard being married, i know. gl mama. ↑ |
Hey samantha, you sound so much like me! I also got married when I was 19 and got pregnant just before our 1 year anniversary. I had my first when I was 21 and then had two more within 3 years. I'm 26 now and have 3 kids. My marriage has gone through BIG big trouble, and not just once or twice. All I can say is that you have to sit down and decide, do you really want to be with him? Can you work through the problems because you truly want to be together? Leave your daughter out of the equation because if you don't want to be there it will never work and that's not fair to any of you. It's not easy, but you're young and that plays a part. When I was your age it was much easier for me to say "I'm done!" With time comes maturity and you guys will find it easier. I wish you all the best!!
Esther
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