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hi momo i have lots of sadness going on mostly cause of my husband rick he wants to move out says he needs time to think but he not home very much anyways he goes drinking most every night with his buddys from work ↓
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| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:35 PM |
| lynnie you are welcome to talk here to ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:35 PM |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:36 PM |
| from what you have said in the past dina you need to kick him to the kerb anyway,he sounds like a waste of space to me. ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:36 PM |
| sorry i keep being a butthead to you lynnie ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:36 PM |
| ok all forgetten about now dina. ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:38 PM |
| i should but i love him and i keep thinking we can make things work see things were good up til i was diagnoised with border line personality disorder and slight depression then he changed for the worse and kept hurting me over and over ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:39 PM |
| well its hard cause he is the father of your child..but yu have to think what will make you happy...in the long run..you don't want to wake up 10 years from now and thnk i wasted so much ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:39 PM |
| he started going out drinking every night then stopped having sex with me and i know he cheats i know cause i have condums in his wallet and phone numbers in his cell phone ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:39 PM |
I really do think you need to get out,the way he is treting you will only make these problems worse for your health.
Sorry that i thought you were atomic i was wrong about that. ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:39 PM |
| i left my ex husband...i just realized i needed to find myself...i had depression at the time and just left, but it was the best thing for me... ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:40 PM |
| A lot of people stay togeather for the sake of the child but i dont agree with that,children can poick up on things and it does have affect on them. ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:41 PM |
| Sometimes the hardest thing to do is what is best. ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:41 PM |
| he threatens to take ethan from me though and when i was pregnant he wanted me to have a abortion but then after ethan was born he would not help me take care of him and he dont spend much time with ethan at all now ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:42 PM |
| well i can tell you that when someone cheats..its most likely an ongoing thing...i cheated on my ex alot towards the end of our relationship...i couldn't help myself...i was a horrible person for that ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:42 PM |
| And he calls himself a man? ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:42 PM |
| yes i agree with lynne...my son is much happier now that we are split...cuz we as parents are much happier ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:43 PM |
| at first he said we would stay together for ethan but recently he says he is moving out he needs time to think but says i cant know where he is staying i think he wants to stay with a girl ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:44 PM |
My advice to you:let him move out you will be much happier for it.
Move on with your life and show him that you can cope without him. ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:45 PM |
| rick and ethan are all i have i have no siblings and me and my mother we dont speak my life has already fallen apart so much and i am so angry an i get on here and take my anger out on baby crowd members but when i try being nice some one will say things to me that are mean and so i go back to it ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:46 PM |
| Easy for me to say and i need to take my own advice from time to time,just ingore them. ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:47 PM |
| i cannot cope with out him i know he cheats but he is my husband i know he loves me but not in love with me and it hurts in my heart so bad he will laugh at me and make fun of me it hurts when he dose it but he made love to me a week or so back and i hoped things would be better but then he says no he needs time to think ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:48 PM |
| You need to remember one thing,you are not the weak one here,he is cause he is the one who cheats! ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:49 PM |
| You can cope without him,just think about your boy in all this. ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:49 PM |
| i was good to him and i do take wonderful care of ethan that boy is my heart and soul his dad wanted me to abort him and i said no and we seperated but then he called and said he wanted to come back home and i let him we were good at one time but my bpd pushed him away from me ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:49 PM |
| I have always said to dan,he is here cause i wnat him to be not cause i need him. ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:50 PM |
| you can love someone but not be in love...he might love your for the comfort of having you there...or being the mother of his child...but if he cheats he does not love you directly ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:50 PM |
| ethan loves his daddy more than any thing ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:50 PM |
| I really do think that you need some time apart from him to see how things go. ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:51 PM |
| Andrew loves his daady as well,and yes it will upset him but in the long run i am sure without a doubt he will be much happier if you are. ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:51 PM |
| i know momo but i cannot bear to let him go that easily i love that man and always have i just want him to be in love with me again i just want to keep my family together ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jun 1st, 2007 9:52 PM |
| Trust me...i left and did it all by myself...i struggled for 2 years...but its perseverance and the desire to better my life that kept me going. The feeling of wanting a good life for myself and my son...you can do it..but you just have to work at it ↑ |
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