well honestly it has nothing to do with you and interfering would only cause more problems in your family.
When people set a opion on someone ie: "your motherinlaw thinks she is awesome" she isnt just going to change her mind because you say so.
My advice stay out of it and mind your own buisness ↑ |
| I agree with 13itchy. I wouldn't say anything. Just sit back and let her expose her personality to everyone. If she is unhappy her true colors with shine soon. ↑ |
| You have heard the old saying "give them enough rope and let them hang theirselves?" It will happen. Just sit back and let her swing.... Someone who says things like that will end up saying it to the wrong person and be set free. Then they usually find out how good they had it. ↑ |
| I would stay out of it. My mom and I interferred with my brother and his girlfriend, and it was not pretty. They broke up and he really wouldn't talk to us, and to this day he will not talk to me about girls. ↑ |
| I'd open your brothers eyes and tell him what you heard her saying. It isn't fair to him to poor his life into someone who really doesn't want to be with him and is telling everyone but him how she feels! Or if you want you could confront her and tell her either she gets honest with your brother today or you will do it for her and then do it if she won't! that's what I'd do! ↑ |
| You are all right i know but i cant stand to see him get hurt! ↑ |
| DEfinatley agree in staying out of it...there is nothing you can do but trying to do something will only make the problem fall back on you.. ↑ |
| simmonds-amanda,I disagree with what everyone else is saying,sorry! I think staying out of it is a bad idea. The more time that passes that your brother doesn't know that's just more feelings he is developing for her and then what if a baby eventually comes into the mix and then after that your brother finds out the truth,then he and the baby will be hurt. you should tell her you know and make her tell him and if she refuses,tell him yourself. If you have a good relationship with your brother he will believe you. Sure he will be hurt but I'm sure he would much rather know now then later. He would probably be more upset if he ever found out you knew and didn't bother to tell him. It's your call though but this is my opinion. I know I don't like it when people keep important things from me to (protect my feelings),and this is a pretty important matter I think. ↑ |
| I think if i say anything he will not believe me. ↑ |
