I DONT HAVE NOTHING AGAINST IT AT ALL!!!
but some people put there babys up for addoption for the sake of having an easy life maybe because they dont wana do it alone but why go through putting the baby up for adoption when you mays well have an abortion
.......... like some of the woman on here have full reasons on why they had to do it which i completely agree on,,,,,,,,,,, but i do no people what has done it for the easy life
so they can have there own life back ↓
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| Name: elliesmummy | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 1:50 PM |
im only pointing this out because i may of upset people
while having a throw at hiddy for the way and the reason she did it
but i dont wana upset no one ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 1:57 PM |
My opinion is-
Each situation is different,
If you are in some dire situation were you have NO OTHER option, eg no money, no home, no support. Then that is the best thing you can do.
Although if doesnt even have to be full adoption, it could just be putting the child into foster care, getting help and sorting your life out and then getting the child back.
If your not in some dire situation, then i always believe you should AT least try being a parent, you learn how to become a parent over time, and how do you no you cant give the child a good life without even trying? you dont. ↑ |
| Name: elliesmummy | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 2:02 PM |
you cant be a mother if you dont try
i didnt have much money i didnt have much of a stable home i could of easly give up my daughter but there would be no chance in hell of ever letting my daughter go she is my life shes my world
i didnt think id be good as a mother i had phobias i had mental health problems
but now look at me
i have my own home im in a stable relationship
ellies gets all the love and attention she could ever asked for ↑ |
| Name: elliesmummy | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 2:03 PM |
| im even seeking help for the sake of my daughter ↑ |
| Name: Dana G | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 2:20 PM |
| I for one don't believe adoption is the easy way out at all...you still have to tell everyone and give birth to a beautiful baby, then hand it over to someone else : ( I could never do that...even if I had no way to care for the baby I don't know if I would be strong enough to hand over my baby....I feel abortion is the EASY way out and I am totally against it. ↑ |
| Name: elliesmummy | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 2:25 PM |
i agree dana
i couldnt hand my baby to somone
but i certainly couldnt have an abortion ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 2:30 PM |
I dont think abortion is the easy way out either, but again each situaion for every dirrent person that has to go through adoption or abortion if different.
So it is hard i think to say well this is right and thats wrong cause there re always more things to it then that. =] ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:09 PM |
There is only one reason to become a parent. Because you want to love and raise a child. Any other reason is selfish and not fair to the child.
A girl or women who becomes pregnant isn't necessarily the best person to raise the child. What child wants to be raised by someone who resents them, can't provide for them, and can't nurture or love them?
Elliesmummy, I think the concept that being able to reproduce does not mean that one is capable of loving and raising a child is hard for you to comprehend. Research child abuse and then ask yourself if those mothers did the right thing by keeping their children. I honestly believe that many children have lived fuller lives because they were adopted. I also believe that some children are so horribly abused and damaged that it would have been better to never have been born.
You want to think that life is simple and it is not. It takes a lot to raise a child. Almost all females can give birth--but I would never say that all females make good mothers. ↑ |
| Name: lynne | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:12 PM |
I think that if you give your child up because you know that you will not be able to give them the life that they should have it shows that you love them.
It takes a lot to do it. ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:13 PM |
| Name: lynne | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:13 PM |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:16 PM |
| Adoption,abortion either way it is up to the woman who is pregnant. Whatever her reasons are for her choice she makes is just that...........her reasons. Nobody has the right to judge her for whichever she chooses. It is her choice and hers ALONE. Adoption and abortion are both legal to do. It is a womans choice. ↑ |
| Name: homemommichele | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:30 PM |
Well, at least the US supreme court ruled today to keep Partial birth abortion illegal. At least that form of grusome "choice" is not NOT legal. It is a child, not a choice IMO however each person has to live with themselves and their own choices.
As for adoption, there are women who cannot have their own, and it is truly a blessing for them, and at least the child gets a chance, many times better than they would have. ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:38 PM |
| Wasn't partial-birth abortions allowed only in circumstances when the mother's life was at risk? ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:41 PM |
| I understand some find abortion "grusome" and wrong but it is NOT up to them,it's up to the pregnant woman to decide what she wants to do. ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:46 PM |
| There is no such medical procedure as "partial birth abortion." There is a procedure called "intact dilation and extraction" which is used in extreme cases where the fetus is so deformed (such as no brain other than brain stem, organs developing outside the body, etc.) that there is zero hope of life. It is done only rarely and it is NOT a common elective procedure. A woman does not wake up one day, decide to go to yoga class, then get her nails done, then have a nice lunch and then an intact dilation and extraction. This was a procedure reserved for when the woman's life was at risk or the child was very deformed. I think this ruling is a sad decision for womens' healthcare! ↑ |
| Name: elliesmummy | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 3:58 PM |
M
i no what your saying i truely do which i agree on
and its a blessing for people who cant have babys
i think its really hard for people to give there babys away but what im saying issssss i no people what gave there baby away because they couldnt be botherd to look after them
and i think thats wrong ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 4:01 PM |
| May be elliesmummy but it was still their decision to do even though you don't agree. ↑ |
| Name: elliesmummy | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 4:05 PM |
| so your saying you agree on people just throwing there baby away for an easy life lizzi ↑ |
| Name: M | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 4:07 PM |
elliesmummy
What child would want to be raised by a mother who doesn't want to be bothered with parenting? The child is better off with a parent who wants to raise them. I am sure those people are the ones who have unplanned pregnancies and they are being responsible by realizing that the child should be raised by someone who wants to.
You should be upset with the women who have children and don't want children-- but do it anyway for all the wrong reasons. Such as collecting welfare money or thinking that they can catch a guy if they become pregnant. Or because they want someone to love them back. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 4:08 PM |
| I'm saying it is THEIR choice no matter WHO thinks it's right or wrong. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 4:09 PM |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 4:11 PM |
| and elliesmummy,giving the baby up for adoption is NOT "throwing it away"! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 4:12 PM |
| I think abortion,adoption are both o.k. to do. ↑ |
| Name: homemommichele | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 4:43 PM |
| It is referred to as "partial birth abortion" because the baby is delivered feet first aka partially "born" then the doctor reaches in and sucks out it's brain collapsing the skull and killing the baby. A choice???? Discusting!! ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 5:31 PM |
My sons first mom did not throw him away. She placed him in my arms that were supported by my husbands arms. Our son has a great life.
Elliesmummy, please look at the pictures of Baby Collin on my myspace profile. Take a good look at him and the joy he has brought into our family....Do you still think his mother should have aborted?
http://www.myspace.com/linetrashwife ↑ |
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