I mean seriously - the ONLY time hiddy comes online she will talk about me, to me or try and make fun of me - she hasnt had a decent convo with anyone on here in MONTHS who else feels the same? i cant even come on here without seeing her triple chin slobber chops commenting on something ive said...or something like this where im not even in the post - the post has nothing to do with me..but she writes this big ass paragraph about me?
Name: Hiddy • Date: 05/30/2007 18:51:43
A lot of women think they are weak if they have to seek help for depression. Yet, its the other way around. It takes a very strong woman to admit she is having thoughts of harming her child, herself, and is not coping.
Because of people who continually try to stigmatize this condition. Such as the likes of some of the women in this forum....namely "SARAH" who continually makes referrences to taking medication as something which should be laughed at and stigmatized.
I find this disturbing as SHE has had problems since the day her baby was born and sent me countless emails about how she wasnt coping, and about how a nurse that picked up in it was doing the wrong thing by her and her child. When this nurse is obviously TRAINED to spot problems.
Sarah's baby is almost 6 months old, and still she continues to get no help or support that will give her respite from her child. She is doing the whole thing alone and her sons well being is at risk. In order to be a good mother, you must first look after yourself and this includes giving yourself downtime.
From what I can gather, this child is stuck to her side 24 hours a day and she has only had respite from the child a couple of times. Times which she used to go on a drunken benders.
It is indeed those woman who seek help that are the strong ones and we must correct those who see seeking help and taking medication as something to be laughed at and used against people, such as Sarah continually does ↓
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| Name: Dina, | Date: May 30th, 2007 11:48 PM |
| quit your crying you idiotic lady ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: May 30th, 2007 11:51 PM |
| you like to follow people around on here ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: May 31st, 2007 12:20 AM |
| why is hiddy obsessed with you then ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: May 31st, 2007 12:24 AM |
I think MOST woman ( nI know I did) have a hard time with pregnancy.....and all mothers feel worn out at times!
I personal;ly did not put my children in play groups...because those dang GERMS!!!!!!!
It is o,.k to go out and have a few drinks with friends on occasion.......actually it is HEALTHY to get out and socialize...... ↑ |
| Name: homemommichele | Date: May 31st, 2007 12:24 AM |
| I know Sarah, but just giving her her own post is giving her what she wants. She even started on me to get attention last week. Poor pathetic lonely thing. I would feel sorry for her I guess if I knew her, but as it is I really don't care. ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: May 31st, 2007 1:36 AM |
| hell i had a hard time before being pregnant, being pregnant and now not being pregnant again.. its life all the same, still makes me want to rip my hair out some days. and i know for a damn fact i am not the only one. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: May 31st, 2007 1:59 AM |
| Hi courtney how are you...how is the babe??? ↑ |
| Name: Dr Bunnz | Date: May 31st, 2007 3:13 AM |
exactly my point winn and oliver has just gotten over his first "serious flu/cold" why would i put him in a enviroment where he is more likely to contract futher things?
He loves the little friends he has now..and like i said previously the kid prefers adult company..they show him attention..as children tend to draw the spot light away from oliver....he is a real little star :)
Michele...i know..i know i should ignore the idiot..just baffles me i come on here and in a random post about something that has NOTHING to do with me, i didnt even comment in..she wrote all that! i mean..come on..what a sad individual ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: May 31st, 2007 3:20 AM |
| I hated the mommy groups...everyone trying to prove they are the best mom...God I didnt need that crap. ↑ |
| Name: Dr Bunnz | Date: May 31st, 2007 3:39 AM |
most of the mums around here are stupid little sluts trying to have multiple kids so they can live off the welfare system..not genuine what so ever.
Seriously all the ones ive met...they are 16-20 with 2+ kids each. Its stupid..but hey there choice, and i have no reason to socialise with people like that. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: May 31st, 2007 4:11 AM |
Well My kids were not in any play groups.......My youngest is very shy still, but starting to come out of it....
As for the 4 older ones......The oldest is a social butterfly...lol.....and doing great.......
second oldest....smart , and has her group of friends......sticks mostly with her group....
third oldest....social, class president, leadership...etc.....
4th......In to his sports....
my point being....none of my kids suffered for not being in a play group......at 6 months??? It is not a benefit to the child...more so for the parent, to get out and socialize with other moms........ ↑ |
| Name: Shelbysmom01 | Date: May 31st, 2007 4:42 AM |
My daughter didn't attend play groups & she is bright, sociable & well behaved around others. I think most people are just jealous. Women can get depressed easily for many different reasons (pregnancy & childbirth a biggie) & some handle it differently than others. Not everyone seeks help, I didn't. I just learned to cope on my own & I don't think I harmed my child by not getting help. If a woman does get help, then great. But not everyone has to be treated when they get depressed, they just find other ways to cope.
I have thoroughly enjoyed my daughter being by my side "24-7" and would not have it any other way. One day, I know she will be "grown" & then I can do what I want. I do get out on occasion & I think it is healthy to do this. And if I wanted to drink a few mixed drinks or just read it a book, it would be MY BUSINESS! ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: May 31st, 2007 4:46 AM |
| i dont plan on putting braden in mommy and me groups, esp when we get overseas again he is staying with me all day unless i go to the gym or running then he can be with daddy.. and as for him being here in florida, i work nights 6-1am for sears, and my mother watches him, i refuse to put him in any kind of daycare or babysitter, i dont trust people. if i want to have a couple beers, i do so but not to where im drunk or even buzzed. and i think whatever it is i do decide to do is my own damn choice. i need a little me time too. ↑ |
| Name: Atomic Snowflake | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:23 AM |
| Hell, the mother and toddler groups MAKE me feel depressed! All the talk about is where they're going on holiday, their families and their houses......BORING!!!!!!!!!! Nightmare!!!!!!! The other kids either fight or just stand around looking at ya like you've got a bogey hangin' off the end of ya nose and the toys are broken and out of the ark! ↑ |
| Name: lynnie | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:44 AM |
| well from what i can see from this post it is not hiddy doing the stalking. ↑ |
| Name: Ludicrus | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:49 AM |
| Hiddy, seriously ignore it...IT wants a bite from you..just keep on chatting and step over the comments..everytime you reply...and get pissed off..even with a civil answer..that gives them ammo to attack you ↑ |
| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: May 31st, 2007 2:03 PM |
im a bit of an oddball i guess..
I like my toddler groups!! hehe...I go to a church ran one (im starting to go to church now) and just a normal one in town. I enjoy them. the girls have 3 best friends who come over here as i tend to worry if they go eslewhere.
But i understand why people dont lie them. I hated them at first..too noisy and I felt really selfconscious..like everyone was staring at me! ↑ |
| Name: Ludicrus | Date: May 31st, 2007 2:41 PM |
atomic you think when you are at playgroups that " The other kids either fight or just stand around looking at ya like you've got a bogey hangin' off the end of ya nose "
I think it is time someone tell you why people stare at you. It is those hairy legs of yours that you never shave! That must be freightening to kids! ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:00 PM |
From : Sarah Bunny [[email protected]]
Sent : Friday, 5 January 2007 10:26:30 AM
To : [email protected]
Subject : RE: How the hell....
Well hey,
Maybe I'm not cut out for this mother thing. When Olie cries sometimes I feel like slapping him. I know I have these thoughts because I hav so much on my mind but I cant help it!!!!!
May be I should be on some sort of medication or something.I just go out and get drunk when I've had a couple of nights away from him. Mum & Dad wont help me and I dont know WHAT to do. I dIDNT realise it would be this hard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
S ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:05 PM |
| she should never slap her child for any reason shame on sarah for emailing you that the poor baby boy has to cry that is his only way of communicating he is only a baby ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:13 PM |
| dina she never sayed she slapped her child...,she said she feels like itat times... ↑ |
| Name: SLUSHIE | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:17 PM |
Name: Hiddy • Date: 05/31/2007 19:00:01
From : Sarah Bunny [[email protected]]
Sent : Friday, 5 January 2007 10:26:30 AM
To : [email protected]
Subject : RE: How the hell....
Well hey,
Maybe I'm not cut out for this mother thing. When Olie cries sometimes I feel like slapping him. I know I have these thoughts because I hav so much on my mind but I cant help it!!!!!
May be I should be on some sort of medication or something.I just go out and get drunk when I've had a couple of nights away from him. Mum & Dad wont help me and I dont know WHAT to do. I dIDNT realise it would be this hard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
S
first off LMAO - and does EVERYONE now see how crazy she is???
First off hiddy if you want to pretend to be me, make sure you have the RIGHT email address..that is not it :) and i think everyone here who has it knows this
Second off - i know how to spell my sons name? what the hell is olie?
third off - never EVER in my life would i say " i need some medication or something" i HATE pills, i hate those mood enhansors..NO WAY would i take them, let alone THINK or SUGGEST about having them ROFL!!! ive made that pretty dam clear numerous times on this forum what i think about pill
poppers
forth off - you contridict yourself in this email
a - you say i go away for a few days and get drunk but hang on..
b - you say my parents dont look after him? WHO LOOKS AFTER HIM WHILE IM SUSPOSDLEY GETTING DRUNK???? - do i just leave him in a room for a few days eh?
fifth off - lmao i never sign off as "S" what a load of crap. I dont sign off at ALL!!!
sixth off - i would like to know how 10 days after my c-section i was out on the town DRINKING it up? i could bearly walk or move for a week. Let alone go drinking. I couldnt even walk up and down the stairs for 2 weeks to do laundry!!!
seventh off - You said 3 weeks back you deleted ALL my emails straight after our fight.
i am LMFAO so hard you would go this far to make a fake email....do you guys see how crazy she is??? NOW do you see??? ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:21 PM |
| haha...never noticed but the email adress..but that is not right..and i don't eve have sarahs email..but i know thats not it...close but nice try ↑ |
| Name: SLUSHIE | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:22 PM |
and FYI there is no way in HELL ive hit, attacked, lost my temper or even THOUGHT about inflicting any harm on oliver.
He is one of the most well behaved babies i know - the biggest blessing ever. He sleeps 10 hours a night, he has been sick ONCE he is smart...friendly and chatty...i have not had ONE problem with this kid ↑ |
| Name: SLUSHIE | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:22 PM |
| Name: homemommichele | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:24 PM |
Slushie??? LOL that is how I feel with the bloating once a month!!
Yes Sarah the chick is nuts. Maybe you should think about a restraining order. She does have your phone no correct??? I am so glad I am on the other side of the world from her!! ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:24 PM |
| well sarah even if you did write it which i know you didn't...it was dated at the begininng of Jan...Weeks after you had ollie...those feelings are normal anyways...hello we are going to be in june now...i think you have worked out all the mothering kinks... ↑ |
| Name: SLUSHIE | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:40 PM |
oh she has my mobile phone number - its ok i have hers too :) If it carries on any more i guess i will have to look into something...clearly she has real mental problems
Mon - it was bearly 10 days after i had oliver Lol..thats the whole stupid thing about it all! i didnt get out of hospital until christmas..i could bearly walk AT all..as you all know they screwed up with my staples and put them in backwards...so thats why i was in so much pain..i couldnt walk up stairs let alone go out DRINKING for days! LMAO and i was breastfeeding for a month.......so who was feeding oliver while i was gone for days drinking? LMAO again
She contridicted herself in the same email...."mum and dad dont help with oliver" but seconds later " im out drinking for days" ..yeh ok..lmao ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:48 PM |
That was Sarahs email address when she was emailing me....when she had Oliver : )
Suck on that, Sarah, how does it feel to have your personal emails published? Not very nice is it...
and also, you said that your mother and father only looked after Oliver a couple of times, and you really had to push them to do it ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:48 PM |
| You wrote that email to me...dont lie ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: May 31st, 2007 11:51 PM |
| are you abusing your child hiddy for her sake i hope you are not but for you to make a fake email,about sarah slapping her baby then the thought is on your mind so dose your kid have any bruises from you let us hope not ↑ |
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