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I went back to work and now I have feeling for a co-worker. He has brought me home and he kissed me, at work we flirt but no one their has any clue whats going on. He has a girlfriend and a baby and I have a boyfriend and a baby. I dont know what to do, should I, I realy like this other guy!?! Please Help ↓
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| Name: too | Date: Nov 22nd, 2005 5:39 PM |
| Name: kristin | Date: Nov 24th, 2005 5:05 AM |
| You need to listen to your heart. Do not ever feel stuck, but do not leave for a fling. As a woman you are not stuck and should never feel so. Men never have the "stuck" feeling and if you are unhappy with a man, your child will be unhappy too. Remeber that the relationship between a mother and a child is different than a father and a child ↑ |
| Name: to Krissy | Date: Nov 27th, 2005 6:20 AM |
| Leave this Married scum bag alone. ↑ |
| Name: I say go for it | Date: Nov 27th, 2005 7:29 AM |
| if you know what will happen and you are fine with that and he knows what will happen and you both are fiine with it go for it! ↑ |
| Name: to krissy | Date: Nov 28th, 2005 5:23 PM |
| you are so pathetic that you had to post in here too? you posted the same question in stay at home mom's. your story changes everytime. Just go with the other guy and then you can be on here in another couple of months crying about how he cheated on you. you answer all your own questions anyways so why do you keep asking us? ↑ |
| Name: just me | Date: Nov 28th, 2005 5:28 PM |
| do you like him enough to lose your man?!? ↑ |
| Name: k | Date: Dec 2nd, 2005 10:01 PM |
| the only one in the end you will hurt is your children. Put your own feelings aside and forget him ↑ |
| Name: Julie | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 1:51 PM |
Hi, Sweety,
I have a similiar situation. I am 26, married though with a little girl. I have found the same situation except we haven't done anything. But the temptation exists. However, I don't think we're bad people and I don't think it's a good idea either. Over all we have to look at the big picture. Think about your relationship at home with your man and your child, if this other person hadn't come along, were you happy, were you missing something to begin with? How many people will be hurt by what may very well be an infatuation. I think that if your feelings are true seperation from your man is necessary, then if the other guy seperates and only if he seperates from his partner then you know it's worth persuing. Good luck. Julie ↑ |
| Name: emj | Date: Dec 11th, 2005 3:41 PM |
think about your baby. how you gonna tell him when it is older that the reason that you and daddy split up because you liked another guy.how will you expect it to trust you.what if the guy you like just wants sex not a comitment and not willing to give up his family.you would be hurting alot of other people think about it.do you really like him or want a exitment.
from emily ↑ |
| Name: p.l | Date: Dec 14th, 2005 7:33 PM |
| I think its natural through relationships to get bored and think oh this ones so nice and cute forget about it youll ruin his family and yours and then youll end up breaking up when a year goes by and you arnt happy again get coucling or talk to your b/f and tell him you need more out of you realationship maybe a wild sex up the anal on the car in public to spice things up cheating is not the answer. and he probably wont leave his family anyways ↑ |
| Name: nicky | Date: Dec 21st, 2005 8:03 AM |
| lose the man!! he's already cheating on his girl now, what makes you think he will stick by your side through thick and thin?? If I had my baby's daddy would stick with me, no one else would ever matter again. You need to realize what you have, and as for co-workers... Those realationships never work out!!! Trust me I Should know! ↑ |
| Name: to krissy | Date: Dec 21st, 2005 9:31 PM |
| i dont think you deserve either man hes a scum and your a cheater to.. ↑ |
| Name: bridgette | Date: Dec 29th, 2005 6:46 AM |
Krissy-
This sounds just like what my girlfriend went through. The reason why you are likeing this other guy is because he gives you what your boyfriend doesn't and the thought of this other guy clouds your thinking. If you leave your boyfriend for this other man you will find yourself unhappy, thinking that you don't even know this man and what You did have was better! Life is not always greener on the other side. My mother left my father to be with her high school sweethart and he ended up one year later asking for him back because the other guy was totally different once she had all of him. I wish you the best! Look at your baby and ask to yourself what would he/ she think about your choice? ↑ |
| Name: Steph | Date: Jan 2nd, 2006 6:15 AM |
| Please don't start this kind of drama in your new young family life. You'll turn out to be the loser in the end. The women always does! You'll end up a single parent with two kids from different dads. It will be harder then you ever think! ↑ |
| Name: Amy | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 6:14 PM |
| There's a point in your life - here's a clue, you already passed it - when your teenage-like hormones need to take a rest. You're going to break up your family and his because you LIKE him? Don't stay where you are if its a bad situation - ifits not so bad try thinking of someone other than yourself. ↑ |
| Name: mary | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 2:56 AM |
| don't be foolish you might leave your fella but i will tell you now he won't or i'd be answering his question on here now don't you think? be happy with your new baby and your man ↑ |
| Name: to Krissy | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 7:18 PM |
| If your not happy with your boygriend you need to tell him not cheat on him. ↑ |
| Name: Angie | Date: Jan 14th, 2006 1:27 AM |
| If you leave the one you love for the one you like, then the one you like will leave you for the one he loves. ↑ |
| Name: ^~~~that krissy was not me | Date: Feb 21st, 2006 6:30 PM |
| That person is playing games on here I am not that kind of perosn. buy the way I am fine, i am not seeing that other guy and pluse I stopped working their and I have a new Job now b/c he got realy pissed off and was herrasing me, So that other person trying to act like me is trashy!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Aaron | Date: Mar 17th, 2006 7:16 PM |
| I think your Boyfriends Shoudl leave you at the moment, Your a discusting cheater and your help giv your baby a difficult up-bringing, with a dad and step dads. ↑ |
| Name: To Krissy | Date: Mar 17th, 2006 7:43 PM |
| Be with him - you both deserve eachother! You and him are just wrong and sad. How old are you, 16? Come on now! Grow up! ↑ |
| Name: To the REAL Krissy | Date: Mar 23rd, 2006 10:21 AM |
I'm glad you found a new place of employment. I hope it works out well for you. You're a smart cookie you are, moving on like that. You're guy is lucky to have you (but I wouldn't tell him about the kiss, lol, it would do no good, only harm. It's simply a lesson learned, right sister?)
Don't worry about people continuing to respond to this thread, thre are a lot of idiots who come online and don't read postings, they just respond to the original post without reading the ones that come after.
There are some posts that keep getting brought up that are like a year old, and these idiots keep answering the question as if the person just asked it, and that original person hasn't posted for like 8 months, so I doubt that they even come back. But idiot posters keep posting away.
So just ignore this thread from now on, that's what I would do. Cuz this posting of mine will probably be the last wee bit of wisdom on this thread, lol, and that may not be saying much.
No one knows who you are. And don't let other people posting as "Krissy" bother you. Just start using another nickname.
Good luck with your job and baby.
And don't forget to make up your mind about whatcha going to do with your boyfriend at some point, men don't make up their minds about such things...we gotta do it for them.
If you want a husband in your life, and he ain't gonna be it, don't let him tie up your life so that you end up never getting to meet the man who wants to be your husband. You've already proven yourself worthy of more.
And aaaaahhhhhhmmm OUTTA here! ↑ |
| Name: Jess | Date: Mar 24th, 2006 9:08 PM |
| I agree with too because he can't be a nice person if he's cheating on his wife and baby (like you!!) ↑ |
| Name: So whats the problem? | Date: Mar 26th, 2006 8:12 AM |
Neither or you are married, so what does it matter. It's not like your breaking any vows or anything.
If it mattered to him or his girlfriend they'd be married. If it mattered to your boyfriend or you, you'd be married. But since your not.... ↑ |
| Name: diana | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 7:36 PM |
| If you are happy in your relation ship don't wreck it. i did something like this after about 13 yrs of marriage. not proud of it at all but I found out the grass isn't always greeneer. i had never been with anouther man, and my hubby wouldn't pay attention and this guy did. it was not worth loosing my marriage over. think what about what matters most to you. ↑ |
| Name: to krissy | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 8:27 PM |
| Name: I say........ | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 6:51 AM |
| lose the dudes and take care of your kid! ↑ |
| Name: So what's the problem? | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 8:44 PM |
y u guys all over her like that?
It's not like she's married.
ya, Krissy, lose the dudes, don't lose out on life because of men who want to hold u back. There's a whole world of men out there to enjoy b4 u decide to get married, y u want to be with just 1? There'll be plenty of time to be with just 1 after u get married.
Thats just stupid.
Plus it's so obvious your bf isn't the 1 u want to marry, so sticking with him is keeping u back from finding the 1 for you! ↑ |
| Name: shorty | Date: May 24th, 2006 10:15 PM |
| Ha you no what we are no one to judge every one makes mustakes and only you no what you have at home. No ones perfect and god forgives everyone ya i know it's not good to cheat but you no what there's something your mans not doing so of course if some other guy comes along and sweet talks you and listens to you of course it's going to make you feel good. Don't trip when people say what are you going to tell your baby when he are she grows up because the issue is your man is'nt taking care of your needs. But you must think before you decide to leave this other man make sure it's what you really want. Enjoy life while you can because tomorrow may never come. ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: May 24th, 2006 11:01 PM |
Dont go there,you think that your co-workers dont know well think again,the place that i last worked at was a joke,the boss was having it away with one of the ladys and it made the atmosphere so bad.
They also thought that we didn't know,but it was obivous.
Not only that it is never a good idea to get involved with a guy from work if it all goes wrong then you have got to work with him,and by the sounds of it too many people stand to get hurt.
If i was you i would stick with what i have got! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: May 25th, 2006 2:37 AM |
| Cheating isn't right so if it's the new guy you want,you should set up residence elsewhere other than with your boyfriend your cheating on. ↑ |
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