| hello. you really have to take care of your marriage. it's just like a baby that grows and you have to care for it. when your both working and life is busy, it's really hard to stay focused on a marriage. you definately need a date night, at least twice a month. get a sitter and go to dinner together, and 'date' each other the way you did before marriage and babies. you have to keep communication very open. maybe you could trade a full time job for part time? I know that is a sacrifice financially, but it's better to sacrifice some money than your marriage. It's only been 6 months, and you've vowed forever, you've got to do a better job at working at it. I know there are family committments and other people involved, and it's always nice to accomodate that, but you need to turn down some of these activities and put your marriage first. spending time together is most important. good luck ↑ |
