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Name: wendylacey
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as of late there has been 3 different, quite serious allegations made against my son!
1. another boy had been search by the police for wotever reason and the police found 3 pills on him. this boy claimed that my son had borrowed his jacket, and claimed the pills belonged to my son. no action has been taken by the police and dont know wot the outcome was!
2. my son has been accussed by other kids and the police that he was throwing stones at a ladies window. he claims he only joined the group of kids after the stone throwing and did not run (like the others) when the police arrived therefore he was picked up. i am awaiting further action and charge. my daughter backed up my sons story, so on this occaision i do believe him.
3. my son has been accused of throwing ? a bottle at a mobile car, smashing the window screen. he claims it was not him, it was another boy, awaiting visit from police.
i hav always taken responsibilty for my sons action and he is always punished. there is something just not quite rite about these allegations. something is telling me that my son is telling me the truth and is getting blamed for other people's actions, or am i becoming blind with the love i hav for this child...am so confused and scared incase they take him away
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Name: mar22 | Date: Mar 18th, 2007 5:16 AM
dont underestimate your momly instincts i too went through this my son was being blamed for things and tattled on for doing things i thought he did. come to find out kids realized i punished my son so they new he would get in trouble. yes my son did do some things but like you aid joining in and then the one being cahgt in the end. ive had to learn not to disciplin him in front of other kids and wait till we were in the house, how i came to find out is another boy came and told e my son has been innocent of things. so i suggest maybe have a buddy system have him be around someone who can back him up for awhile. and still have the talks about inappropriate throwing things and smashing things and if it happens have a consiguence like no game system, no tv, no bike until it is earned back from two or three days of good behaviour. just a thought good luck, its not always our kids fault totally or at all so good luck. sorry im rambling 

Name: wendylacey | Date: Mar 18th, 2007 9:50 PM
dear marr22, thanxs for ur supportive words. my son was arrested last nite and charged for allegation no: 3. we hav a gang problem here and my son was a drag along (against my wishes) and thats where the trouble is coming from. my son is an easy target so they blame him cos they know he gets punished plus they know he wont fite back! however the word has got out that he has denied all charges and gav the police names of the boys who did cause the trouble and my son is now being threatened. i am becoming a nervous wreck with it all 

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