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My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years. We moved four hours away from his ex wife and she still continues to send him text messages and photos of herself. In the beginning I wasn't allowed to be around their daughter. Then she allowed me to go with him to give her her Christmas presents. Then she eventually allowed us to take her to the movie. She had a good time so I was then not allowed to be around her again. I can't even go to her home and drop off my husband. We have two other children with ex's that we have to travel to see and we try and work it in to see all of them at one time due to lack of money for the amount of child support we have to pay. When she is pissed at my husband she will not answer her phone or call for days on end. She now insists that he has to come to see the daughter and I can't be in the state. He did this in January and she went out and left him to babysit. He ended up spending the night. Of course he says she was not there. She is now pushing him to come back. I keep insisting that I have to go with him and we fight. Its not that I don't trust him, but I don't trust her. She sends him messages all the time about getting back together when I am out of the picture, etc. What do I do? I feel my marriage suffers greatly because they talk all the time. When she starts her sh?? and using the child as a bat he starts pushing me away until we fight. He left me at one point during the first year of our marriage to go back to her. It didn't work and he came back to me. She has had him arrest and put in jail, won't let him see his daughter on fathers day and most times can't talk to him, we gave her her Christmas presents at a gas station last year. What do I do? How do I deal with her? He tells me I am nuts and he won't tell her to stop with the messages/pictures he just says he doesn't read them because if he confronts her he can't talk/see his daughter. What should I do? I can't get him to go to counseling to deal with this. I need some sort of help. ↓
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