| I dont know what you can do about it until they get they get fed up with her crap. Maybe one day soon they will decide enough is enough. ↑ |
| Well I really don't think there's much you can do. The older one won't live with you because she wants her friends,(which is understandable given her age),and the younger one is probably (daddy's girl). My question to you though is how on earth did you and your ex end up one inside and one outside the U.S.? Were you in Canada and then left for the states or was he in the states and left for Canada? If he left for Canada with the kids then he would have had to have YOUR permission to do it. But if you were in Canada and left him and the kids to go to the states,then that explains it. The only advice I can really give you is you could always move to Canada yourself and maybe get your girls more OFTEN. I do think your ex's fiance is VERY immature. In fact I'd love to know how old she is!? If she speaks this way to your girls then I can imagine how she speaks to your ex! I'd be willing to bet that their "relationship" probably ISN'T all that wonderful. Sounds to me like SHE wears the pants and your ex probably cowards down to her every command! WHAT A LIFE! :).........NOT! I don't know why you and your ex split ways but sounds like you may just have to live with the consequence. Because I DOUBT he's leaving her,(she's too controlling),and well the kids already stated their reasons for staying so looks like you'll just have to listen to their complaints and really not be able to do anything about them. Sorry. ↑ |
| LIzzi, she is in her early 30's. Orginally I lived in Canada and they were to come with me once I got settled and had a house. Unfortunately that never happened. I am seriously considering going back to Canada to get the girls. ↑ |
| Thank god your kids are older. I would take him to court and say that the kids don't want to see their dad (most importantly, do they?) if they don't then you can explain why to the courts. Most likely, the visits if they occur will be kept very short. If they do want to see their dad, it wouldn't hurt to file a motion of modification of the visitation agreement so that these things will come to light in the system and you can get the help you need. One of your ex's job as a dad is to protect them from abuse and he's not doing that. Keeping the situation the way it is is making you an enabler as much as he is. It DEFINITELY needs to stop. Don't let that whacked out ^&*itch affect your children's mental health. Your job as a mom is to protect them and don't feel bad for dad at all. Good luck. ↑ |
