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Name: Dara

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My husband and I have been married for 5 years. I have 2 children, he has one, and we have one together. We've had a great marriage. Lately I've been noticing the communication between my husband and his ex is a little inappropriate. Examples: Happy Valentines text from ex wife to my husband. Calling him at 2 a.m. after going out drinking while he was working to tell him what time she's picking up their son the next day. My husband texting her nasty jokes from his cell to hers. My husband having a pic of her on his phone and texting it to her, supposedly as a joke. Them riding to my stepson's ballgame together, after asking me and her husband if it was okay -- what are we supposed to say? I don't want to be the bad guy. Of course, for every offense, I get some excuse that it's a joke, it's no big deal. He says he's been there, done that and has no interest in her anymore at all. She did cheat on him and is married to the guy she cheated with. Actions speak louder than words! I'm at the end of my rope -- Help! Need advice. ↓

Name: Dora | Date: Jul 18th, 2007 10:02 PM

Do not let anyone tell you there is nothing going on. It's down right rude and disrespectful to you. I agree having a "healthy" relationship with an ex is ok even can be good, but the way your husband is going about it is completely wrong!...And you do not need to put up with kind of behavior. You are not the "bad guy" for not eccepting this nonsense! ↑

Name: HC | Date: Jul 20th, 2007 2:51 PM

That is very wrong...they are not married and do not need to be riding in the car together, or joking together. To me and not to start anything but I would have a very serious talk w/ your husband and see what he thinks about this and to see if he understands were you are coming from. For me this would be grounds for divorce. I'm sorry but if you are divorced thats it you don't fool around like that. Hello they were married and slept together and had a kid, please my husband would be out the door. This is VERY DISRESPECTFUL and it makes me furious!!!!!! I would ssure as hell have a nice long talk w/ him and see how he reacts. All of that needs to stop NOW because that is not fair to you. I could go on and on but I'm sure you don't need any more people telling you what to do. But just don't let him try to say "we are just friends and doing it for the kids" that BS. ↑

Name: patty | Date: Jul 20th, 2007 6:03 PM

I don't like the smell of this!!! ↑

Name: HC | Date: Jul 20th, 2007 6:11 PM

You know what....This is really bothering me. I would really waste no time and get to the bottom of this because no one deserves the mental and physical stress this can have on you. ↑