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Name: Shannonsmeltzer

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I dont know if my x-husband is the babies father or not. But we have been trying to work things out. But I have been on the list to get into another apartment that is low income and they finally have one open after four years. He doesn't want to take the apartment with me because he said that he wants to be able to kick me out whenever he wants. With being five months pregnant I need to worry about the baby and myself, right?? The guy that is most likely the babies dad, said he will pay for me the apartment and take care of the bills so I have a safe place. What do I do? Does my x-husband just want me out of the picture? I get the feeling he just doesn't want to hurt my feeling. ↓

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 2:54 AM

If he told you he wouldn't take the apartment with you because he wants to be able to kick you out whenever he wants,whats that tell you? Leave and go to the apartment alone and leave him in the past where he belongs. Think about your future and the babies. I think you have low self esteem and should work on that for your own good. You definitely don't need a man in your life that only wants to live with you if he can kick you out whenever he wants,he's a loser and you're better off without him. You have an opportunity to start fresh with moving to this apartment,take advantage of it and look at it like it's a whole new beginning for you and the baby,but leave the jerk behind and tell him good ridance when you go! ↑

Name: Layne | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 3:07 AM

Take the apartment. ↑

Name: Shannonsmeltzer | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 6:15 AM

I think you guys are right. I just had a conversation with him, a little while ago. Well lets say, my but is on the coach and he locked me out of the bedroom. And I got called a hore. I know that I made a mistake, and I will be the first to admit that. But this baby is my life now. Why is it so hard for me to leave him? We have been together five years, every since I was 16 years old. And I am so upset and depressed. ↑

Name: Girly 29 | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 2:54 PM

Your ex told you he doesn't want to take the apartment with you because it prohibits him from being able to kick you out whenever he see's fit!!!!.......He's an ass!!! Take this apartment and get rid of him. If you stay with him not only will he continue to kick you out, but soon enough a baby too... along with having to live with the continous disrespect to you......Your baby deserves better and you can give this new live to her/him. Where's your family can they be a good support to you? Take Care Girl :) ↑