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Name: Sally.V

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Hi I am hoping you can offer me some advice. I am in a relationship with a lovely man, he has 5 children to his ex wife ages 21,19,18,8 and 5. I have children 13 and 8. When we first started dating he said that if he found the right partner he may consider having another child, but we went away together jut the two of us for a week and he told me straight out that he doesn't want anymore children because he's too old. I am 32 he is 43. We have been together nearly a year. Do you think I am being pushy or selfish? Any advise would be greatly appreciated. ↓

Name: Enufalready | Date: Jan 11th, 2008 5:25 AM

Hi. I empathize with your plight, yet he's had 5 kids already. You have. 2 Isn't that enough for one family? It's too bad he changed his mind, but he did. It's your call. If it's a deal breaker, go find another man who wants marriage and children. Good luck. You're lucky to have what you have. ↑