I'm newly engaged to my soon to be husband. We've been together under 5 months, but have know one another for the better half of our lives. He is less than one month away from finalizing his divorce. My question is when do I get to sleep in the same house, not bed, as my soon to be husband when the kids are over??? So far, the ex hasn't approved of us doing it and we've been very patient and respected her wishes...she says its too soon, up until the other day. She revealed to him that SHE isn't quite ready for this to happen. This isn't fair!!! Right??? She is the one that cheated and tore their family apart. I have absolutely fallen in love with the kids and feel I should have some 'at-home' time with them before the wedding. What do you think??? Should I just be more patient??? He thinks we should hold out until the divorce is final...not to create any waves. Without sounding to harsh or dramatic...I don't want her to think that she can dictate how our lives are going to be lived.
Thats it...just curious to see what other people think. Even the ex-wives out there. I'd like to know how you feel as well...to give me a better perspective of the other side. I'm not a mean person and would love for things to run a bit better than what they have been.
Thanks for any input... ↓