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Name: jhall

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I've been married for 3 years. My husband has a daughter who's almost four years old. I have 9 and 17yr old daighters. One weekend his daughter was over and he had gone out. His ex road past the house, when she didn't see his car she called my house at midnight and told me she was coming to get his daughter because he was suppose to be with her and not me. She started banging on my door, I told her to leave, she started cursing and I told her she was going to wake her daughter up. She proceeded to walk past me, I pushed her. She called the police and they told her she had to leave. My husband had words with her, he said, but she keeps doind similiar things. I am so frustrated, what should I do? ↓

Name: Sarah | Date: Jun 26th, 2008 4:49 PM

Tell your husband to only take her on days when he will be home, and if she (the ex) keeps up that crap, then she can take care of her all the time, and you don't have to do her any favors by keeping her at all either. She'll be complaining he doesn't take care of his daughter next, but maybe she'll see that she'll be okay with you, and stop acting like such a jealous witch. She must like to think she can control him by acting like that, and if she gets her way all the time by throwing fits, that's why. Next his daughter is there, and he wants to go out, call her up and tell her he is leaving and to hurry up and come and get her. See if she'll like that, and keep doing that for a while.... ↑