| well ally its intially up to you, i mean i havnt got in that possition yet so i really dno what to suggest sorry ↑ |
| JUST REMEMBER YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER LOVE YOU VERY MUCH, AND THIS IS VERY HARD AND STRESSFUL FOR THEM TOO. MAYBE THE THREE OF YOU CAN SIT DOWN AND HAVE AN OPEN TALK ABOUT THE PROBLEM. ↑ |
| when u turn 18 teen u can do what u want that's only 4 more years hang in there things will get better. ↑ |
| As much as this really hurts your, you need to remember the problems your parents are going through is not about you at all. They both will love you all the same. They will never stop loving you. As much as I hate to tell ya, you have to try and be a strong girl. You should still be able to achieve what you want out of life. It only means you won't see your dad as often. Think positive kiddo. When you feel they are putting you in the middle of the arguements or bickering, you can put a stop to it by telling them to quit. Make sure you explain to them that you love them both and you don't like being in the middle if this is the case. As much as you seem to hurt, try not to let yourself worry. You need to focus on being a young teenager and enjoy your childhood. A new move is very scarry and nerve racking but you might find out you will have more fun than before. Remember, you can keep your life together by staying focused on the important things like your school work, friends, activties, etc.... Do your best to excell in those things and you will do just fine. The arguements and difficulties between your parents is all about them not being able to be around each other to be the true and honest individuals they want to be. I don't know if my advice helped you but anytime you want to vent or ask questions feel free to ask. I will be willing to listen to ya and help if I can. ↑ |
