Hello,
My name is Amber, i am 34 weeks pregnant. I know that maybe it is a little bit too late to join but i am in desperate need to talk to people that are going through the same thing as me. i am nearly due to have my baby (a boy) and i am absolutly terrified, i have never been more scared. i cant sleep i cant eat i cant do any thing but cry. my fiancee wont support me he is just intrested in sex and i am not intrested in it. then when i tried to talk to him he called me a freak and said that most women would be happy. my doctor said that it is normal to be anxious about the birth. i haven't really got any friends i can talk to because i have just moved to britain from south africa. my family are all over in south africa. i just feel like a complete failure as a woman and a mother. ↓
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| Name: X-Amber-X | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 7:16 PM |
| sorry i got a bit carried away, in my post guess i just needed to vent : ( ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 7:17 PM |
| Hi amber..im danese...i am 30 weeks and i understand what your feeling. My husband doesnt understand that i feel so depressed right now and i just want him to talk to me and be there....(he is in iraq though..so its a bit harder) ↑ |
| Name: X-Amber-X | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 7:20 PM |
| i am sorry, danese i couldnt imagine what it would be like if my partner wasnt with me right now even if he is being a complete prat (excuse my language) congratulations on the pregnancy even if it is nearly over lol. do you know what you are expecting ? ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 7:20 PM |
same thing i told chris the other day that i think im depressed, but i dont think he understands, and if i was in your shoes, i would love the sex, because im not getting any right now, and either is daneses, both of our hubbys are in the military...
but i would just try really hard to explain to him how you feel, its really hard to get feelings out of guys, and im sure is just as nervous about it as well ↑ |
| Name: Kyra | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 7:20 PM |
| I think the way you're feeling is perfectly normal. Sheesh--having to move to a new contry so close to your due date sucks! Guys can be unappreciative sometimes so just blow your fiance off for now and remember that he has NO CLUE what you're going through--. It's OK to be anxious about birth--esspecially if you've never done it before but trust yourself--you're body knows what to do and you still have some time left to adjust to the idea. Chill out and try to enjoy the last little bit of your preg. and congrats BTW ↑ |
| Name: X-Amber-X | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 7:28 PM |
| thank-you it makes me feel a lot better to know that what i am feeling at the moment is normal. i know what you mean zoey about men and feelings paul my fiance is one of those guys who thinks that 'emotions are for wimps' (his words). i just feel really bad complaining about my man when you and danese's hubbys are away, sorry. so are you all pregnant? or have you delivered? ↑ |
| Name: DaneseS | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 7:32 PM |
| no its fine i would complain if he was here too lol.. ↑ |
| Name: X-Amber-X | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 7:33 PM |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 7:36 PM |
| ill be 37 weeks tomorrow with a boy, and Chris has only seen my belly for 2 weeks out of the whole time ive been pregnant, it sucks, but i think the sex part would get annoying after a little bit, because some times in mot in the mood, but lately, man i have no clue what has gotten into me but i want it all the time, but i think thats just because i know hes coming home soon! but it sucks because i want it but cant have it lol ↑ |
| Name: NIKKIS | Date: Apr 26th, 2007 12:38 AM |
| hi i cant really relate to your situation. even though im single and doing this alone my family is wonderful and i have their support, but i did want to introduce myself. im nikki, im 20 yrs old and 29 weeks pg with a little girl! ↑ |
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