when was the first time you had sex after giving birth?
i gave birth naturally almost 3 week, 4 days ago. during the process i tore internally and needed stitches, although they came away the next day. the bleeding has pretty much stopped, although i am still a tiny bit tender.
i'm afraid to have sex though in case i'm not supposed to yet, although my fiancé is becoming a little frustrated. lol. but i can't blame him. this entire year we've only had sex 3 times, and because of a cervical erosion i developed, the last time was in May!
are you supposed to wait the full 6 weeks? ↓
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| Name: Logan | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 3:30 PM |
| you are not suppost to have sex until after 6 to 8 weeks !!! ↑ |
| Name: Logan | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 3:31 PM |
| For me its 8 weeks because I had a c-section. ↑ |
| Name: Savannah | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 3:43 PM |
| I waited because I bled off and on for 8 weeks. We tried to when I was about 5 weeks PP but it made me bleed again. I was sooo sore so sex wasnt quit the same until I was about 4 months PP...LOL! It seems like such a long wait! ↑ |
| Name: Logan | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 4:15 PM |
| sex is the last thing on my mind right now.... ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 4:37 PM |
Not untill your DR. gives you the OK,
but its your body do what ever the hell you want! ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 4:38 PM |
| it tellys you on your dr notes from the hospital ,and all your dr.s and nurses should of told you when you left! ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 4:38 PM |
| Name: MyTwoBabies | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 4:49 PM |
| They say you are suppose to wait 6 weeks. I waited for 5 weeks and I was really scared because I also tore. Nothing happened to me during or after the act. Just have to be careful. ↑ |
| Name: FatallyYours | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 4:52 PM |
| i waited 2 weeks. lol but i knew i wasnt gonna see scott again ↑ |
| Name: davina | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 5:30 PM |
| we waited 11 days.....hurricane charlie hit and we had no electricity for 7 or 8 days so yeah...we got bored at night and had the candles lit so we could see..hahaha kinda set the mood! but i didnt tear when i had my baby so i didnt have stitches or anything.. ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 8:10 PM |
| im almost 5 months postpatrum, and still no sex for me yet!! lol it killing me!!! it will be 9 months by the time i get some :( chris comes home in like 2 weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Lola | Date: Oct 6th, 2007 11:32 PM |
I dunno but my sex drive just came crashin' back to earth about a week after my section.
I was mad fer it! Lol.
I still haven't though...But if I wasn't still punishin my bloke for bad behaviour I would have done. Lol.
Jeenie it musta been about 4-5 months now. Haha. ↑ |
| Name: Meggles18 | Date: Oct 7th, 2007 1:13 AM |
I waited two weeks and I was cut during birth.
Hey what can I say I Love Sex :) ↑ |
| Name: NIKKIS | Date: Oct 7th, 2007 2:29 AM |
wait 6 weeks.
i still havent had sex, and brooke is 4 months old, but i have no sex drive :( ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Oct 7th, 2007 9:10 PM |
| OK!!! So this afternoon I finally tried having sex. Aoch aoch aoch aoch aoch! Where I got the stitiches was SO painful. Nope, not trying that again for a while! Should have listened to yall! ↑ |
| Name: lacirrom | Date: Oct 8th, 2007 1:36 AM |
when i had gracie we had sex 4wks pp (the doc said we could if i felt up to and the bleeding had stopped) and it was painful at first but then we tried different positions and finally found one that felt good.
cole will be 6wks tues and we still haven't done anything but i just quit bleeding yesterday and we haven't exactly been in a loving kinda place with each other lately lol
although i am starting to miss it lol we couldn't do hardly at all during pregnancy cause it hurt so much ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 8th, 2007 5:04 PM |
| I was 3 months and five days...and it was awesome! ↑ |
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