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Name: angelpuff84

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I have been on this board a little over a week. But I am a memeber at many others as well. Mainly I have only posted a few things, but I have read alot. I have come across several reponces that can be described as nothing less than rude. The whole point of these forums is for us to get together and help one another and support each other, As even I have been told there are no stupid questions and you should not be afraid to ask. I know that the whole group of could I be pregnate? am I pregnate? postings can be annoying and I know young teen mothers can be heartbreaking to most older generations. But these are the people who need to talk the most and have the most questions. They should not be responded to with rude insensitive comments like the ones recently posted. If any of the rude people would have bothered to really read Rosie's post you would have seen that regular urine test don't work with her...I myself have the same issue and I can understand not having the money for another dr's visit. I guess I may make some people mad here but several of you made the comments about Birth Control and why she wasn't on it well for one...she never said she wasn't on or using bc....two....you never know wether or not she can take or use bc......I know that with my health problems the only birth control I can use is condoms and guess what they don't always work or I wouldn't be pregnate now. Not saying I am not thrilled to be pregnate again. Maybe I am taking this a little personal but I have seen many of you jump to conclusions about people with out even bothering to be polite and ask....I know I may have just stepped on a lot of toes and made some people angry but I know none of you mean for your comments to be hurtful or to scare some one off who may really need someone to talk to...........Can we all please just try and think before we type something that could hurt someone else???? ↓

Name: zoey9810 | Date: Jan 5th, 2007 1:33 AM

I just want to know, where are the Adult Figures in thes Girls Lives??? Google has answers for every thing, we arnt doctors, we cant tell these young girls whats wrong or right with them, all we can do is reccomed them to some one who can help, like saving some money and going to a Dr. or Buying a Pregnancy Test, or going to Plan Parent Hood!!! its FREE!! with DR's included! ↑

Name: angelpuff84 | Date: Jan 5th, 2007 1:48 AM

all I am saying is that you can suggest these things without seeming hateful, or rude......these boards are supposed to be "safe places" to come and talk with out being put down for a bad choice or for what they may feel is an embarassing situation or problem.....I understand what you are saying please don't get me wrong but I have been in some of these situations or had some one close in them and I know how there are some comments and some things that can really hurt a person and some that can help....you can give advice or just saying a few kind words can help alot to most people....But jumping the gun with out having the facts can make a person feel stupid or ashamed....Like I said all I am hoping is maybe some of the people will stop and think before they post a comment and wonder if there isn't a nicer way to say what they want with out hurting someone else ↑

Name: zoey9810 | Date: Jan 5th, 2007 1:50 AM

well its one thing if the people are serious, but its another if they come to the board ask a stupid question get every one all worked up then never come back to see if they got any advice, but i do see what you mean ↑

Name: angelpuff84 | Date: Jan 5th, 2007 1:56 AM

I understand that too but one girl I know of that did post here got such bad replies that she left. She wanted to know what being pregnate felt like. She is only 15 and had been raped and was too scared to talk to anyone around here. All she needed was someone to help her and encourage her to talk to her family. I guess that is another reason I took some of the recent comments so personal. I just don't want to see someone how really needs the help and advice get scared away ↑

Name: zoey9810 | Date: Jan 5th, 2007 1:58 AM

well thats a different story, she cant help that that happened to her, and thats understanable for her to feel scared about coming to people that she knows thats fine for cases like hers ↑

Name: angelpuff84 | Date: Jan 5th, 2007 2:11 AM

She didn't post that she was raped because she wasn't ready to even admitt it to herself...she is 13wks now and has said how much it ment for me to track her down after she quit comming to this board I just really hate the fact that anyone of these other girl could be in the same boat and get treated badly because of the question they asked.. ↑