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Name: Someone n need for Help!
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i have been bulimic and a cutter for about 2 yrs. now and loved it but some how i don't like it anymore b/c I'M TRIED OF CUTTING MYSELF AND BINGING ANG PURGING every 9 to 10 time of day and i can't stop! it's taking control of my life! I'M MESSIN UP MY BODY! I can't get this picture out of my head that i'm FAT! i weight 97 pound and 5'6 and i still think i'm fat! and if i can't binge and purge! i have to cut myself! what should i do someone please help! ↓
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| Name: ************** | Date: Mar 27th, 2006 1:05 AM |
| Name: ????? | Date: Mar 28th, 2006 8:35 PM |
| Huney, u really need some help and i mean professional help. ↑ |
| Name: help | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 9:27 PM |
yu need professionall help
tell you parents you want to talk to a therapist like asap ↑ |
| Name: connie | Date: Apr 11th, 2006 8:17 PM |
| You really need to see someone with all the answers like a therapist. Also have you ever thought you are angry or upset about something, and that you are taking it out on yourself. GET HELP! ↑ |
| Name: Amelle | Date: Apr 11th, 2006 8:21 PM |
| You won't gain a lot of wait if you quit you just have 2 eat the right amount of food and very healthy light food and also exercise this will keep you at the same weight. ↑ |
| Name: alexis | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 2:27 PM |
| Name: Liz | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 7:53 PM |
| I am going through the exact same thing right now. I cut myself yesterday, and lie about it. I throw up and pretend like nothing happened. I hide all of it. You need to get professional help. You won't be able to do this alone, and you need to talk to someone outside of your head. You can only change if you are committed to it and REALLY want to change ↑ |
| Name: advice | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 12:56 AM |
hi, i know what your going through one of my best friends is a cutter and has an eating disorder. but unlike her, you know that what you are doing is wrong and harmful to your body, you know that you need help. cutting is only one wayto get rid of your problems and they wont go away by slicen yourself, EVERY girl wants to be skinny, they want to be accepted they want to be perfect, girls may deny it but its true. talk to your parents about it or at least some really close friends because they can help you. and your not fat i know its hard to except that and even though a stranger is saying this to you, i think you should listen to this advice because you may become very sick, and your family wont want to see you doing this to yourself.
love yourself because other people love you just the way you are!
from
-- a girl who understands-- ↑ |
| Name: Eleri | Date: Apr 20th, 2006 5:06 PM |
| Hey girl, chill out. I am 5'5" and weigh 116.5, and thats light. why don't you take a pic of yourself and of some one else your hieght and compare them? ↑ |
| Name: Talk to an adult & get help | Date: Apr 20th, 2006 5:29 PM |
Weight-control Information Network (WIN), NIDDK, NIH, HHS
Phone: (877) 946-4627
Internet Address: http://www.niddk.nih.gov/health/nutrit/win.htm
Academy for Eating Disorders (AED)
Phone: (703) 556-9222
Internet Address: http://www.aedweb.org
Harvard Eating Disorders Center (HEDC)
Phone: (617) 236-7766
Internet Address: http://www.hedc.org
National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (ANAD)
Phone: (847) 831-3438
Internet Address: http://www.anad.org
National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA)
Phone: (800) 931-2237
Internet Address: http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org ↑ |
| Name: stop | Date: Apr 23rd, 2006 5:55 PM |
| everyone who is sending this girl messages think they know what to do.....its not that easy i am in her exact position and you can't jsut get help....why would you want to talk to some stranger about your rpoblems...and even to tell jsut a friend, what would they think of you then? If you tell your parents there egunna go all wierd on you and it will be horrible. And "a girl who understands" no you dont understand so stop trying to say you do your advice is crap. I jsut thought that i should tell poeple b4 they give advice, know what they REALLY feel like. ↑ |
| Name: To Stop from an Exmother | Date: Apr 23rd, 2006 8:15 PM |
We are all strangers on this board so she is talking to strangers! Folks that are trying to send her to a couseler or Dr are saying that they can not help her That she should talk to someone who can. When you have a broken bone you go to the drs so when you are bulimic & cutting you need to get professional help. Even a school counseler might be able to direct you to help.
Even if we knw what someone feels like does not make us qualified to help!!!!!
This is not a game my daughter died from this illness last week she would not get the help she needed and talked to people that are not Drs. and it killed her.
Thanks for nothing Stop.
If they call a hot line people know how to help and how they feel.
PLese call "Someone n need for Help}
National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA)
Phone: (800) 931-2237
Internet Address: http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org
So You shut you mouth before some else dies. ↑ |
| Name: Stephanie | Date: Apr 24th, 2006 9:10 AM |
hey,
girl,i had problems like that.I was a cutter for 4 years i was BAD!!!!! I needed to do that to feel normal and bulmic right on top of it.I got so bad that if i tried to eat i would throw up anyway cuz my stomach was so used to being empty.I used to have to do stuff like that to feel normal,to have some consistency in my life.I'm only 5'2'' tho and i got to the point that i weighed 171 pounds and i hated my self,so i purged and took diet pills and exercised 3 times a day an hour each time.and went from a size 11 to a size 5 in month and i thought it was so great and then i had something tragic happen and i gained all the weight in a month and a half and i battled it for a long time.I had to get hospitalized because i cut 30 gashes in my arm.I used to love cutting myself but i found a way to stop.so if u wanna talk and hear more about my experience u can get to me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Recovered | Date: Apr 25th, 2006 9:42 PM |
| just learn to love yourself - its nature ↑ |
| Name: * | Date: Apr 25th, 2006 10:00 PM |
| theirs a place u can go, it's called the HOSPITAL ↑ |
| Name: embarrased so not giving name | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 9:21 PM |
hey,
i'm a 16 year old girl, i cut and i am embarrassed, i told three people, one is my best friend (not known him more than a year but we are really close hes a great guy) and i feel guilty i told him, the other two are both girls i know from the internet, telling the first helped a little but telling the second didn't really make a difference. when i told my best friend, the one who does actually know me in real life it made things a lot more real and i just wanted to cut more, he requested i don't again but i got the impression he thought i was like him and many others, that i had only cut once and was embarrassed and didn't want to again. the truth is i had cut more than once in the past and do enjoy knowing i can cut when i need to, it was pure luck i hadn't had time to cut much on the most recent occasion so he didn't understand i usually do a lot worse. all he saw was the almost healed scar of a very very short cutting session. now i'm half-afraid to talk to him about it, to admit although i haven't cut since i've gotten very close and even had the blade in my hand before i remembered his request, he'd asked me to promise i'd stop, i merely avoided giving an answer, didn't say i'd promise to stop but i didn't say i wouldn't try to avoid cutting either.
if i ever do end up asked 'why?' i know already i won't be able to explain, but i do know that the weekend my best friend was away and the weekend we wouldn't be able to talk online for a few days the weekend i was scared for him, i cut again, i cut deeper than usual and i had to stop after the second cut because it was deeper then i'd intended and because as i was about to cut again a drop fell onto my trousers. i realised i had to explain the blood and was stopped cutting by the practicalities of having to stop the blood, hide the cut (not a problem i always cut on the skin my watch covers because i waer my watch 24/7) and i had to explain to my family, i used the story of a 'papercut' but i know that i lied.
all i can say is good luck in coping, i'm trying to stop cutting before i do get addicted and i think that being able to get out of the house, go walking or riding my bike would help, sadly i am not allowed out alone because i have had trouble with bullying and my mother knows it, she also knows how often i end up near fights and so i am not allowed out alone. but hopefully you are, so why not try walking? or running? or any other form of excercise getting out of the house? it would also help you lose weight, oh yeah i also have an imaginary world and i've had that world a long time now and that is another way i try to cope, i find it helps, sadly i also cut now but an imaginary world really helped me cope for a few years until i became desperate enough to cut
all i can say now is GOOD LUCK! ↑ |
| Name: tamm | Date: Apr 30th, 2006 4:57 PM |
| hay i used to be a cutter to for about a yr anda half i did it every day upp to bout 6 times a day my email iz [email protected] email me and we kan chat i got thru it no how it feels and how hard it iz to stop.. ↑ |
| Name: shantasia | Date: May 3rd, 2006 2:07 PM |
| your fine i go through it al the time now i'm fine to just live breathe and be happy besides if your having as much fun as me then why stop ↑ |
| Name: kate | Date: May 6th, 2006 9:15 PM |
| grirl i weigh 80 and i have the same question. ↑ |
| Name: samantha | Date: May 11th, 2006 2:09 AM |
| I am doing a research paper, and I want to ask some questions. I really do care, and I want you to be aware that I am simply seeking honest answers. ↑ |
| Name: say | Date: May 11th, 2006 5:16 AM |
| Name: it hurts | Date: May 11th, 2006 5:50 AM |
| r u losing weight? Cause if it helps many people start to get bloated and gain weight while being belemic. ↑ |
| Name: jessica to somone. | Date: May 11th, 2006 8:37 PM |
| Yea I did cut myself 5 times. Guess what?? I regreted for doing it to myself!!!! Cutter is not answer!! ↑ |
| Name: Rissa | Date: May 15th, 2006 2:46 AM |
you need serios help you need. you need to be admitted to a hospital right away. bulimia and cutting can lead to suicide or heart attack. You need help!
National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA)
Phone: (800) 931-2237
Internet Address: http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org ↑ |
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