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Name: D.T.

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I am 16 and i could be pregant. i will take a test to find out soon, but if i am i wanna know how do you tell your parents. i would also have to tell my whole basketball team and i dont think im ready to tell everybody my business like that, but i can't continue to play and they are gonna want and excuse. My boyfriend is 19 and we have been together for 2 1/2 years. if i am we are planning on getting an apt together because we dont want to have to bring the baby back an forward, but i dont know if my mom is going to let because i'm jus sixteen, but the time i have the baby i'll be 17. How do i convence her to let me live with him. Another thing about the sports i am really good at sports but i really dont want a future in the i jus do them bc im good and thats what everybody wants me to do. Please leave me your comments thankzz. ↓

Name: Jules18 | Date: Jun 14th, 2010 5:57 PM

sweetheart, youre parents will understand. im eighteen now. and i have a two year old, and i think i may be pregnant again now. your parents love you. at first they will be angry, but mostly at themselves rather then you. theyll be asking themselves where they went wrong and all that. but noone did anything wrong. everything happens for a reason. and if you are pregnant, then your baby will be the most beautiful gift you will ever have to pleasure of recieving. the biggest thing is, you will need help. and by telling your parents right away, you will give them the time they need to accept it. and they will be able to help you with the baby. just be honest, and let them know that it was noones fault, and that you didnt do it on purpose. as for the sports and school... with a baby it will be a lot harder to do both. you may just need to keep the sports and recreation to a minimum, but with help from your family youll still be able to play. but i strongly urge you to make sure you stay in school. i dropped out, and i have regretted it every day since. you can go to school with a baby, it will definitely be hard. but in the long run, it will be the best thing for you and for your baby. good luck honey! ↑

Name: Krissie10 | Date: Jul 1st, 2010 5:54 PM

Hey D.T.,

I totally agree with Jules18. If you find out you are pregnant, you need to tell your parents. I am a mom of a soon to be 15 year old son. And you'll see I made a post, because I think he is getting close to having sex. Im scared to death, and want to be there for him, and try to make him aware of how serious a decision it is. And as a parent, I love my children very much, and Im sure yours do too and only want the best for you. Talk to them, let them know. Good Luck ↑