| Name: Sarah | Date: Apr 7th, 2006 4:51 AM |
look i dont care what ya'l think. my cat was special to me he was my best friend he is always in my thoughts. i just feel sad for you guys who have never experienced the love of a pet it changes your life. well it did mine and im sure that many people will agree pets become a big part of your life when you get one. they are family.
Jenny: how you going today? im good getting a little nervous and impatient lol only 7 days to go i wish my waters would break or something lol.. hows your bub? ↑ |
| Name: Jenny to sarah | Date: Apr 7th, 2006 12:53 PM |
I'm doing ok,sarah.My bubs doing fine.I'm glad your ok.7 days will pass really quickly,don't worry.Just keep calm sweety.
Good luck!! ↑ |
| Name: bethany | Date: Apr 7th, 2006 5:56 PM |
| I would say after you have given birth go on line and find some new mates it may be hard as your single but you should go out in public and find new mates that way.good luck,hope you find some decient friends ↑ |
| Name: Sarah to Jenny | Date: Apr 8th, 2006 1:32 AM |
| hey girl.. im getting closer and closer. she has quietened down a lot in the past few days i think she is resting up for the big day. ive been told thats what they do. how long have you got now? ↑ |
| Name: michaela | Date: Apr 8th, 2006 8:40 PM |
go to a meeting knew friends group and u could make some friends. call up your mum and ask her to be there when the baby comes. talk to family.
after u could meet knew friends mum and dads at a nursery for babies like a getting t konw another baby club something like that . go out night clubing with some mates when u get some not in a horrible way and see if u have an eye to eye reaction to anther man that u might be interested in and he can bring it up as his son if he apreciates u and cares for u magilly. good luck! ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Apr 9th, 2006 10:43 PM |
| Im so sorry about your cat! If mine died I dont know what I would do. She refuses to go out though so I think Im o.k. as far as her dying that way goes.You can always get a new kitty,and raise that one strictly indoors?!Call your friends maybe they will come around now if its been awhile. Asure them that you are NOT contagious!!! ↑ |
| Name: jenny to sarah | Date: Apr 11th, 2006 4:00 PM |
| Hey honey how are you feeling? ↑ |
| Name: teresa | Date: Apr 11th, 2006 7:21 PM |
| I think that you should get new frenids and A new cat so you would not fell so lonly ↑ |
| Name: Sarah to jenny | Date: Apr 11th, 2006 10:05 PM |
| hello jenny well i only have 3 days to go but my back is killing me and im not sleeping so my doctor is going to induce me tomorrow. ↑ |
| Name: jenny to sarah | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 2:08 PM |
| well good luck sweetie i'll be thinking of you. Let me know how it goes. Talk to you later honey ↑ |
| Name: jenny to sarah | Date: Apr 13th, 2006 3:38 PM |
| I hope you are doing great honey, and to let you know i didn't write the above post. Whoever did is mean and cruel and you need to stop. ↑ |
| Name: jenny to sarah | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 6:29 PM |
| So sweetheart have you had your baby yet? If you did how did it all go? ↑ |
| Name: Carys | Date: Apr 18th, 2006 4:30 PM |
I feel so bad for you! Losing a pet can be really Upsetting especially in your case, here are some things to help you Get over the loss of your Cat.
It is good to do something special after your pet dies, like draw a picture of him or write a letter to him or her. If you have the ashes of your pet, you can keep them in a special place.
Sometimes it can help to have a memorial service, where you, your family and friends who loved your pet get together and remember the great things about your pet. If you have a backyard, you can plant a tree or flowers in your pet's honor. Your parents can help plan this, too.
It might make you feel better to keep something that your pet really loved--like a collar, tag or favorite toy. Whenever you look at it, you'll think of your pet.
Gather up photographs of your pet, and make a special photo album. If you want, you can arrange it chronologically, by starting with pictures of when your pet was a baby. You can also include information about your pet's favorite toys, treats and things to do.
Talk, talk, talk! Sitting down with your family and sharing memories of your pet can make you sad--but it can make you laugh, too, when you think of all funny things your pet did.
Good luck. ↑ |
| Name: Iris Vergara | Date: May 2nd, 2006 8:07 PM |
| i understand how you feel, sometimes you feel like all you have is your pets, and you might feel like no one understands you, so all you have to rely on is your pets. ↑ |
| Name: Becka | Date: May 2nd, 2006 8:18 PM |
| oh what a shame, lol, you're pathetic ↑ |
| Name: susan | Date: May 3rd, 2006 2:28 AM |
| When i lost my best friend i would never forgive myself about it. Now she never speaks to me anymore when i try to talk to her.So now im really mad at everyone who talks about it around me. ↑ |
| Name: lipika | Date: May 7th, 2006 11:08 AM |
| plz be my best friend again my sweet friend rashi ↑ |
| Name: Didi | Date: May 21st, 2006 6:01 PM |
| I lost my sweet best friend too, she was a bretty catshe had only 7 monthes, she suffered alot in herlast month and she died through surgery that was with no drugs....i was there with her in her last minuts... God it is so painful for me and to my family too..today mum cried when I showed her Noura's photos -Noura was my cats name- it is very hard I understand. but Sarah you should be happy that at least she had love from you that was enough for a life time..I am sure thatur cat now is in better place...GOOD Luck dear ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: May 22nd, 2006 5:11 AM |
I understand. I have 2 cats and if anything ever happened to them, I would lose it. They are a part of me and we understand each other. Even having a baby doesn't make them any less valuable. They are my "beauty boys" (I know, lame)
Losing a loved pet like that is really bad. Hopefully he didn't suffer.
Cry it out. That is the only thing you can do. Replacing him right away will only disappoint you becase it wont live up to what you lost. Give it some time. And make sure you are still keeping your baby's health a priority. ↑ |
| Name: Rainy | Date: Jun 20th, 2006 9:05 PM |
| I'm sorry Sarah. I've heard of this before happening to someone else, but she went to the SPCA and found another cat, and she thought it was the best idea to do. ↑ |
| Name: kiki | Date: Jul 5th, 2006 2:49 AM |
| IM so so sorry to read of ur loss, i cant belive ur friends and ur boyfriend just dicthed u! i think u may just need to go home and have a good cry on ur mom,dad's,or even grandma's sholder they are the people that truely love u and will no matter what u can trust them more than any one eles. Even though im sure no other animal could ever be as good to u as ur old cat i would think of when ur ready getting a new companion-i send u lots of love, trust, simpathy, and empathy-truly ↑ |
| Name: Paige | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 6:24 AM |
| Oh sweetie..one of my freinds went threw the same thing. but i was always there and i know how it is! She cried everyday but i jsut thinki that made her stronger just think of this when u ahve ur kid will get to mature faster and that means u will be a great mother i can tell. Your friends will come around sooner or later just tell them that u would be there if they got pregant cuz i bet everyone of ur friends has or is having unprotected sex! And when they get pregant u wont leave them u will always be there for them no matter what. Tell them what real freinds would do! Ill be here for u sara u seem like a great girl and a great mother ↑ |
| Name: kimberly | Date: Jul 22nd, 2006 9:01 AM |
touch my heart....... i am so sorry that u have lost your best friend and i know how u felt its sooo grieving and feel so alone when have best friend around..maybe in years whenever u are ready suggest to have cat inside house for cat safely.........but my dear it wont be long for u have a baby!! maybe u wont feel alone but i know it wont replace your dear loved one... keep your best friend in your heart....... i wouldnt know what i would do if anything happen to my cat he is gonna be 18 soon. i have other more cats .. so my cat oreo wont feel alone when i go out......
cong your soon born child....... let me know how it went and know if girl or boy? i have always wanna a child . i just cant trust any man due to my past experince but maybe one day there be someone special come along..... i dont know i am too independence. hehe i almost never alone as i have my cats smile......i have been thinking about adopting kids......i almost got kids from england but it was fraud and scam and i was totally heartbroken sighh
anyway enough of this again ia m so sorry u might wanna to wrtie down about your loved one and maybe try to prepare your soon birth child .and when ever u ready for other pet u will know......i know other one wont ever replace as will still gonna miss your loved one.........he or she s in your heart always......and just go on with your life
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| Name: squiggyrocks | Date: Jul 23rd, 2006 6:28 PM |
| sarah, you did nothing wrong it was your cat's time to go maybe you can find another pet to keep you company during this time ↑ |
| Name: Paige& Amanda | Date: Aug 18th, 2006 6:29 AM |
| It might seem that there is noone else around u that might want to help u out in this Problem that your having! But when the baby is born it is so percious that it brings Family and Love together! Sooner or later they will understand that u do also need love and care Just like they do! It was ur cats time to go. Just look at it this way maybe It ment that you and ur baby will become even Closer then ever before! It means that she will be a momma girl! Just remeber EVERYTHING happens for a reason! No matter what anyone else says or even does to u just rememer u will be a great outstanding mother! ↑ |
| Name: tiffany | Date: Aug 19th, 2006 12:54 AM |
| i know you loved him very much but all you have to do is find another mate ↑ |
| Name: rebecca | Date: Aug 25th, 2006 1:39 PM |
| i don't know why but my best friend never speaks to me or wants anything to do with me and she won't stop lying to me and others saying horrible things to every one about me i am sick of it i need someone to talk to i need a new best friend anyone want to be that person to me i would be so graightful thanx ↑ |
| Name: Ryan | Date: Aug 29th, 2006 6:00 AM |
| I'm sorry for your loss sarah, I understand how you feel, it's not an easy thing to take in, I've been looking for a place to talk about the same thing. It was about a month ago that it happened. Me and my best friend steve were aalways together no matter where we went. we were friends that could understand eachother, we helped eachother with everything, with girlfriend problems, family problems, just everything. He was my anchor, the only thing keeping me sturdy. A month ago me and him were cliff diving at a local spot where we are from and he slipped on loose gravel at the end of the cliff, hitting his head on the edge of the cliff and dropping into the water. I dove in and dragged him to shore. Im 18 years old and my best friend died in my arms,my life has been turned upside down , I can't sleep, I tried drinking more, doing drugs, but then I realised how steve would feel if he knew I was doing that so I stopped but there has to be something that can numb the pain, because I dont think I can take it much longer. I loved my best friend and now he's gone and now it feels like the life is being sucked out of me as well. I just need to know It's going to be ok. ↑ |
| Name: ilin noura | Date: Sep 7th, 2006 6:07 PM |
| Name: jnny | Date: Sep 19th, 2006 2:33 PM |
| Name: jenny | Date: Sep 19th, 2006 2:34 PM |
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