| Name: carla | Date: May 13th, 2006 11:15 PM |
| you are not at all doing the wrong thing, if keeping the baby is what you want. the decision should not be anyones but your own. having a decision forced on you will only fill you with regret for the rest of your life if it is not what you truly want to do. i am a 22 year old single mom, in a situation much like your own...and believe me, i chose to keep the baby and now i couldnt imagine it any other way. of course there is alot to think about when deciding to become a mommy...financially it is not easy, but it is very possible that it can be done. pregnancy, as scary and emotionally overwhelming as it has been at times, has also been the most amazing experience i have ever had. (and as for your parents...just tell them, regardless of the fear you may have of their reaction. all the harsh things that may be said at first, all diminish as the tummy grows and they realize that they are going to be grandparents.....trust me) congratulations, i wish you all the best for you and your little one. ↑ |
| Name: Bianca | Date: May 15th, 2006 5:30 PM |
| Hello I would like to offer a Friend a Sholder to lean on email me at [email protected] anytime! ↑ |
| Name: Kim | Date: May 31st, 2006 3:39 AM |
| I'm 21 years old from the USA. I just had my baby 1 year ago and iwould give her up in any way. I was only 20 at the time i found out that i was 8 weeks and 2 days pregnant. If you love your baby u will know what to do ↑ |
| Name: laura | Date: May 31st, 2006 10:19 PM |
Hi Bianca
It is scary to find out that you are pregnant. I was 21 when I found out i was pregnant with my daughter. I didn't know what to do or what to expect from it I didn't know anyone with kids and my b/f was a jerk so I know that I would be doing it alone. It has changed my life for the better my daughter is 13 mons old now and I don't know what i would do without her. Not to say that it was easy it isen't to be a single parent but support will make all the difference if that is what you want to do. If you would like to talk my email adress is [email protected]. good luck ↑ |
| Name: Michelle | Date: Jun 24th, 2006 10:20 PM |
| I have 2 kids. Their ages are 5 and 7. I had my first one at 19 and my second one at 21 yes it changes ur whole entire life but I would not tried it for the world. And I was a single mom with my first one if ur boyfriend dont wont to have anything to do with it then tell him to go on. Its a choice only u can make but let me tell u one thing I got my tubes tied after my 2 one cause of my mother and I regret it everyday and I would do anything in the world to have another one. But I no that is never going to happen for me any more cause of that mistake I made. So dont listen to what ur boyfriend say and for ur mother maybe she will understand. Its really not that hard when u adjust to eveything. If u ever need to talk just get back it touch with me.My eMail is [email protected] and I go by dixiepeach27 Good Luck . The best is yet to come..p.s. leave ur boyfriend cause u can find someone that is not abusive and if u keep ur bundle of joy it dont need to be around that trust me. Follow your heart . ↑ |
| Name: Tiara | Date: Jul 4th, 2006 5:39 AM |
| Girl, dont worry about a thing I am 16 and also 12 weeks my boyfriends wants to keep it as do i only i am not so sure he wants to be with me i dont want him to look back and say i am the reason for his unhappines my boyfriend is also emotionally abusive and often makes me cry try everytime we talk. i also am beginning to think i and my baby would be better off alone. do as i plan: LIVE ALONE GIVE THIS BABY ALL THE LOVE IN THE WORLD LOVE HIM ENOUGH FOR YOU AND THE FATHER and everything will work out i can bet you that. see, you are not alone. need to talk [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: allisa | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 11:15 PM |
you should keep it. you will regret it if you dont. i am 13 years old and found out that i am pregnant. dump your boyfriend he is no good for you o ryour child. it will bring true happiness to your life. try and find someone else out there fo ryou. remember God works in mystereious ways. congrats on your pregnancy.
Allisa ↑ |
| Name: karen | Date: Jul 8th, 2006 5:44 PM |
| honey, i had my first kid when i was 14. the way i see it... never ever get rid of a child. no matter what makes your man happy. sweety, nothing is your fault. you never need a man to make you happy. you and that baby can make it by your self. if he is hitting you then i would leave him. i know you probley think that it is hard raising a baby by yourself and it is but you need to do what is right for your baby. ↑ |
| Name: BREDA | Date: Aug 20th, 2006 12:29 AM |
| I M SACRED I WANT TO DIE ↑ |
| Name: BRENDA | Date: Aug 20th, 2006 12:32 AM |
| HI BIANCA I M 14 N MY ADVICE FOR U IZ TO KEEP ON N U DONT NEED NO NIGGA IN UR LYF CUZ MY LYF IS A MESS N I WANT DIE I M HAVEING ALOT TROUBLE AT HOME 4 THINGS I DONT DO MY PARENT HATE ME ALOT SO DONT GOVE UP SO EASY ↑ |
| Name: Tameika | Date: Aug 23rd, 2006 12:35 AM |
| Hi, im 19 as well and im 10 weeks pregnant . Im keeping the baby and i think you should do the same .You wouldnt be ruining your life ..at first i was scared but im getting pass that because deep down your mother and father want you to and if you dont God would punish you for killing a child of God . God will forgive you and really thats all that counts. ↑ |
| Name: celesha | Date: Aug 27th, 2006 6:04 PM |
| i just had a baby 4 months ago and im 18. it might seem scary at first to trust its worth while after your baby comes. don't get me wrong it is hard but jus cus your a young mom don't mean your life has stoped cus it has'nt you can still do what you want but just witth your child. and as for that waste of space man of yours leave him he is not worth thats his child your carring and he wants you to kill that's out of order. i was scared to tell my mom as i was 17 when ifound out but she will be supportive. she may be angery but that willl pass don't worry. keep the baby and you will be happy. ↑ |
| Name: amanda | Date: Aug 30th, 2006 4:10 AM |
| iknow how you fill i am the same way right now ↑ |
| Name: Amanda | Date: Aug 30th, 2006 4:11 AM |
| i am 6 mounths pregnent and i amscared ↑ |
| Name: icechick | Date: Aug 30th, 2006 3:23 PM |
Dear Birthmoms
We are seeking to Adopt, I would love to talk more to you about this and tell you about us, Please email me private at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: mayed | Date: Aug 30th, 2006 4:20 PM |
| Name: babygirl2007 | Date: Aug 30th, 2006 6:05 PM |
| congratulations on being pregnant, I am 23 and had my son when i was 19 got pregnant i was 18. To be completely honest with you, you should not feel wrong because you want to the baby. the truth of the matter is this is your decision and you should do whatever makes you happy. Also you should never feel that you are ruining your life. I kind of had similar issues that you are going through but one thing is not to let him or anyone for that matter stress you because it is not good for you or the baby, but i wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide. If you want to talk further my email is [email protected] I can kinda understand exactly what you are going through but if he cant be supportive then you dont need to be with him. me and my boyfriend were going through the same situation when we found out we were expecting baby #2 ↑ |
| Name: sol | Date: Aug 31st, 2006 7:22 PM |
| why can't i feel my baby move at 21 weeks. ↑ |
| Name: Arianne | Date: Sep 7th, 2006 8:48 PM |
| I'm 23 and 9 weeks pregnant. It is totally up to you if you keep your baby but remember if you get rid of it you cant take it back. it will be hard being 19 and having a baby but I believe it wil bring great rewards....Good luck and congratulations!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: keyonna | Date: Sep 11th, 2006 5:29 PM |
| hi i am Keyonna.And ijust found ou that im 3 in the half months pregnant.andi dont know what to do plus my baby sisterjust had a baby boy and i dont want my mother to be madd at me but i almost 18 and i gradurate this year and i scared because want if my mom kick my out or somethig i'm just scared what am i going to do ↑ |
| Name: Kirsty | Date: Sep 11th, 2006 10:31 PM |
| Hey Bianca i think u should make the decision ur own nobody knos hw u reli feel inside i know its hard im six months pregnant and single and feelimg ur baby kick and move is the worlds most incredible feeling no man can ever take that away from u and u can do it on ur own if ne1 wants 2 chat to me email [email protected] wud love some pl who understand wot this feels like sumtimes mates cant x ↑ |
| Name: scared little girl | Date: Sep 17th, 2006 5:43 PM |
| i am pregnant at 13 with a boy on hoilday i know i was the wrong thing to do but i was scared because my best friend left alone with him and he seemed nice and all i wanted to do was snog him but it turned into much more than i planed plz help me i am scared ↑ |
| Name: aqua | Date: Sep 19th, 2006 7:25 PM |
| hey email me and lets talk [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: GodsServant | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 7:20 AM |
Write me and lets talk [email protected]
I am single with no children, born again man who would like to talk to anyone who doesn't have a positive male role model in their life and want to use me as a sounding board about what you going through in your relationship, let's start a wonderful friendship...God bless you, TWC ↑ |
| Name: claudia | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 12:39 PM |
| I know what your going through i was 18 when i found out i was pregnant and i was terrified what my parents were going to say they did tell me to get rid that the father was no good but i went with what was in my heart she is now eight years old and nine years later i am still with the father and we have three children together so it shows you know what is right for you and no one else. ↑ |
| Name: goongirl1 | Date: Sep 25th, 2006 6:35 AM |
| It brings a smile to my face to know that you have decided to keep the baby! What is the worst your parents will do? Be upset-yell at you-be disappointed? I worried about all of these things when I found out I was pregnant. But you have to remember that this will be a new addition to your family! A new baby is Always a good thing! The shock might overwhelm your parents but once the news has set in- they will be happy! My parents were disappointed in me-but now-at 7 months-my mom will not stop buying baby clothes! My dad is even trying to help pick out names...and believe me-I have Never known my parents to be like this! As for your boyfriend...you need to get out of the relationship as soon as possible. How would he be a good father if he cannot even be a good boyfriend? The father of my child was cheating on me with his ex wife...he was an alcoholic-didnt have a job or a car...he was just a loser. I decided not to tell him about the baby-it is better this way-at least for now. I had an abusive boyfriend in the past-he would say horrible things to me, he would hit me and then tell me he would change. Of course that never happened-It just got worse. I know you want to hope that he will come around and be the guy you need and want him to be-but the reality of it is-he wont. It will be hard at first and even scary when you cut ties with him...but you will be so much happier without him...not to mention you can focus more on you and the baby!!!! I am 22-single and 7 months pregnant-and I am Happy! You can do it girl-just be brave for your baby! ↑ |
| Name: Clare | Date: Sep 25th, 2006 12:01 PM |
I am living in scotland at the moment and even though im older (23) i know what you are going through. i found out i was quite far gone into a pregnancy and made the choice to keep my baby even though the odds are stacked against me. as far as i see it you are neither ruining your life or gurenteeing happiness by keeping your baby. if you do it will be hard, harder that we probably both imagine but be strong cause in the end this is just another choice to make in life. we switch paths all the time when we come to these junctions this is just another choice. weigh up your options carefully and choose what is right for you and noone else.
If you want to contact me : [email protected]
Clare
P.S. lose the loser ↑ |
| Name: Holley | Date: Jul 11th, 2007 5:27 AM |
| Hey im from Savannah GA I just wanted to let you know i am only 20 and im about to have my second child. I have a 2 and a half year old little girl named makenzie. Sweetie i dont think you are ruining your life. I think by keeping it you are doing the right thing, ALso you shouldnt worry about what other people think of you. I thought at first oh my mom will hate me and blah blah blah but if your mom really loves you she will be behind you all the way if not then you make the decision you want. I can tell you I was 17 when I got Pregannt and spent my 18th b day in the hospital most people say well wouldnt you be out parting for your 18th b day, I said no look over in that basinet and look at that precious baby. I am 20 and I love being a mom when my days are going bad I can come home to my daughter and she makes everything better. It will all work out. If you would like to talk more e mail me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: SAMIYA | Date: Aug 1st, 2007 2:25 AM |
| TELL UR BOYFRIEND I KEEPING IT IF DONT WANT IT U DONT WANT ME AND AS FOR PARENTS TELL THEM YES, THEY BE MAD BUT LATER THEY GET OVER WITH AND TELL UR PARENTS UR BOYFRIEND WANTS U GET RID OF IT IF PARENTS AGREE WITH BOYFRIEND WELL U GOTS TO TOUGH AND TAKE CARE THE LITTLE ONE TO UR BEST ABILITY I SHOULD KNOW MY PARENTS KICK ME AND BOYFRIEND IS DUMBASS ↑ |
| Name: anonymous | Date: Aug 1st, 2007 3:14 AM |
Hi, Bianca
Well recently I just found out that I am pregnant also, i am so scared also. My baby's father is my ex boyfriend and he claims that its not his so in reality I'm doing this by myself. I cant tell if you are doing the right thing or not, but I would say follow your heart. I say that because in the long run you are the one who has to take care of the child. I actually think its a blessing to be pregnant, alot of women cant have kids, but its your decision if u want to keep it or not.... Like I said follow your heart ↑ |
| Name: Jessica | Date: Aug 4th, 2007 2:25 AM |
| I am also 19. I am 21 weeks pregnant with baby #2. I also have a 19 month old daughter. Congratulations on being pregnant. Pregnancy is one of the greatest gifts that we as women recieve in life. Having a baby is a miracle. It is the biggest and most important acomplishment in my life. I wouldn't trade my daughter or this new baby for the world. I am doing it all by myself. I just got divorced from their father this week. I know how scary it is and it's not always easy but it is well worth it. Keep your head up! You'll be fine! ↑ |
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