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Name: mabzo
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i am pregnant. the father to be tells me he does not know what to do. this is because he had another child 8 months ago with someone he is not in a relationship with, i was not seeing him then and his then real girlfriend was upset and almost left him so he begged her to stay and not to do it again. he started seeing me, we had previously had a relationship 3 years ago and he came back last year though was still in a long distance relationship with the girlfriend he begged to stay. now i am pregnant and he is afraid to tell his parents, to tell his 'girlfriend' because she will leave him for good now. he suggested abortion at one stage, i almost did it because i was scared but eventually said no, he has not pushed me to go ahead. now he is keeping his distance, i have initiated a talk three times since and all he says is 'i dont know what to do'. please help with some thoughts smn if u've been in a similar situation
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Name: april | Date: Sep 19th, 2006 4:01 AM
well i havent been in your situation, and iam sorry to hear this.all i have to say is that i dont think u need him, iam 18 and had my daughter without the presence of her dad. so long ive been good.this man or i should say kid does not have the courage to tell his "girlfriend" and parents, then u should do it, but u have to be sure ur not going back to him.you wouldnt like for your baby to be with someone who thought of abortion for him/her or didnt know what to do with ur baby think about it but dont have an abortion good luck 

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