Hey I'm Nicola and I just wondered if there were any other single mums/dads of twins/triplets.
I was raped by my teacher when i was 14 and I gave birth 2 two identical little girls on aug 7th 2005. and now my babies are 1 year old! They are the sweetest little angels. although they do try my patience. They are walking and talking and both of their first words was "Byebye!" which they now say all time. I stayed at school after having them and got 5 c's 4 b's and an a in my GCSE's so i was very pleased and am now doing my a-levels. I love my daughters to a million pieces and i really am excited about our future. I just wondered if anyone else had a set of twins or triplets or was raped, if so i would love to chat. [email protected]
I'm 16 by the way now, almost 17 though! I booked my driving lessons last week! Oh and I'm from England. ↓
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| Name: Keira | Date: Oct 7th, 2006 6:46 PM |
| I'm from England too, I'm a bit older though! I have triplets, they drive me mental sometimes! Three girls and five years old! They started school in September. ↑ |
| Name: LuckyMom | Date: Oct 8th, 2006 9:06 AM |
| Okay, before there are TOO many replies to this, read the posts 'Why are all the posts the same' and something to the effect of 'triplets for adoption'. COULD be differant people, but not too likely. E Mails are differant, but anyone can have mutiple e mail addy's. ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 8th, 2006 9:21 AM |
| I am not the person who posted for the triplets okay people! I so not have triplets. I am not puting any babies up for adoption. That is somebody else calleed NIcola. I have 1 email address for msn and one that's my main account from BT which I use for my schoolwork and stuff. That triplet post is nothin to do with me! ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 8th, 2006 5:05 PM |
| Are you sure why dont you use a different name then? ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 10th, 2006 9:55 PM |
| why should i use a different name? This is my name! lol ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 11th, 2006 5:31 PM |
I mean use nicola2 or something like that so that we dont get you confused!
By the way if this post is real and you really were raped by your teacher then i take my hat off to you for keeping your babies not many woman in that postion would.xxx ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 11th, 2006 7:16 PM |
| Lol i didnt know that another Nicola existed on here. It didnt tell me that when i registered. I was really raped by my teacher but I am okay about it. I think it was because I was young and met someone so special so soon after and that I was pregnant I didn't have the time or energy to get depressed about it. but how can I hate someone who gave me the two most precious things in my life? ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 11th, 2006 9:07 PM |
Sorry that has done it for me you are one sick person!
.when you have been raped the last thing that you are going to do is start up a realtionship with someone soon aftrewards i know this because i was raped when i was 19!
2.You would hate the person that rapped you weather you had babies from the rape or not!
I just wish that people like you would go and boil your heads and get a life you are very sick and need help! ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 12th, 2006 5:24 PM |
Lynne n, You have actually offended me. By branding me a sick liar because what I experienced was different to you. I made different decisions and therefore you are calling my life, my world, my whole everything a lie. I am a mother of two, I was raped. I am 16. I met Paul 4 weeks after my rape and we became bestest friends. He was abused as a child and he really helped me. He's the bestest friend I have ever and probably will ever have. If it wasn't for him I believe that I would be ever so scared of men. I still am arounf strangers and even some men I know, I hate being on my own with a man, I was understanably very scared of going to school but I still did it every single day. It's true, I maybe don't hate James anymore, but I still don't liek him but he has been granted access to my girls and therefore I see him everyweek and I decided it's best that I don't try and influence their oppinion of him, but when they are old enough, tell them my story and let them decide for themselves how much of a monster their fatehr was. Although I will admit he seems a very different guy to what he was 2 years ago. He is calmer and more controlled. I don't like to be alone with him in an isolated place and would never let anything happen to Poppy and Daisy and I don't think he will ever do anything improper with them of course, i can never be sure but he is regularly checked upon by social workers and various others and I am beginning to trust him a little. Before you jump on me "how can you when you were raped by him?" its my choice and I think i'm doin the right thing by not trying to influence their opinion of him.
I haven't been with anyone since Paul and have no plans on it either. For I can't deal with the emotional side of things right now. Every person has different ways of dealing with their issues, I decided to pretend mine never happened until my twins were around 8 weeks old and I realised I was alone. I'd aways pretended that Paul was the father of them and he neevr protested against that. Now I'm not trying to hide my problems and I don't care what people think. I'm proud of what I've managed with what I've got. I've made the most of what I can. I came on here wanting to meet other rape victims or most of all, mums of twins because I wanted really some parenting tips on managing wih twin toddlers as it's becoming harder and harder as they can reach more things and they are starting to run, or flee as i call it. I'm not a liar, I'm not sick and what you said about me really uspet me, We are different people and have made very different choices obviously. I have nothing against your opinion, and you are entitled to voice it, but I don't liek being slated and I certainly don't like being called a liar. You are calling my whole life a lie. and hwo the hell do you know what i "wouldnt do"? You've never met me. you don't now me, what you know is based on your own expereicnce or average rape victims. I'm a member of a rape victim group and I met Allie-ann who is just like me, her rapist was her best friends husband and she still has to see him, but has put it behind her and can even speak to him now. Time heals most wounds, it will never heal a rape wound as it goes too deep, but it can help ease the pain a little. ↑ |
| Name: emma | Date: Oct 15th, 2006 3:09 PM |
hey nicola!
bless you youve gone through alot!
i havent got twins but iv got a 2 year old, iv added you to my msn if thats ok if you ever wana chat.
x ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 15th, 2006 9:01 PM |
| I was raped when i was nineteen so i do know what it is like! ↑ |
| Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Oct 15th, 2006 10:42 PM |
| I dont live in america or in a bubble, a convicted rapist, would NOT be allowed to visit his children in Australia. Plain and SIMPLE. It has nothing to do with Jails etc, if Nichola really cared she could fight the court system to have full custody of her children. I'm entitled to my opion as you are, and i was just stating the actual FACTS. It makes it 10x worse that she was a Juvinlle not a adult when the rape happened. Add up the facts. And Nichola tone down the F words. Not much of a example your setting for your twins there :) ↑ |
| Name: PiageM | Date: Oct 15th, 2006 11:14 PM |
| I think i would have to agree with bitchy. Not only was this teacher a rapist, he is a pedophile. And to allow him access to Children, girls at that, i dont think a judical system would allow it. I also live in england, so i cant justify Lil Missy's Comments. ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 16th, 2006 7:30 AM |
1.if he was your teacher and raped you then you were underage.
2. there would have been enough evidence to convict him as you had 2 babies by him.
3. he would have gone to prison!
You are very young and you dont yet know the ways of the world,if you were really raped then i am sorry for you,but i dont believe that you were.
By making up these storys like you are you are upseting a lot of people like my self that have been victims of rape and other abuse.
Also people are right the courts would not allow this man near you or your two children because of the fact that 1.he raped you 2.you were underage when he did this.and 3.he was your teacher!
If you are going to make up storys and lies look into it first sweetie!
If you post a reply to this then it proves one thing that you are trying to convice yourself of this story,not us!
I for one am not going to waste anymore time replying to this post anymore i am above that,and i have better things to do with my time.
It sounds to me like you are a little girl who is very messed up in the head and who isnt getting much attention at home so she has to come on here and make things up.Very sad! ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 16th, 2006 6:23 PM |
Me too! im fed up with your comments on "lies" im telling. I am not lying and I personally do not understand how anyone can lie about something that crude and terrifying. I have tried to protest against the decision but I ain't going into that or anymore about my life and what's happened in it. I too am fed up with posting back and yelling my innocense, I came on here with one simple question, "anyone else got twins" and I guess only lil missy does and Keira who has triplets, I've been speaking to lil missy but Keira I havent got your msn address or anything and I'd like to speak to you, find out a little more about your little girls! I dont want to read any more abusive posts towards me, because they are full of insults and lies and calling me a liar is starting to hurt me because I know i am not and obviously the people on here have a problem with that.
Anyway, hopefully speak to you soon Keira and I shall have to pop off and get ready for work. bye everyone! ↑ |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Oct 17th, 2006 11:54 AM |
this girl is not liein!! i have spoken to her and seen pics of her twins!
shes a nice girl! if you dont belive her then just dont read her posts!
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| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 17th, 2006 1:42 PM |
| Thanks Emma! And you got a point, if you don't believe me, dont bother reading my posts. I want to strike up a friendship with someone like Emma and lil missy who I can talk to and share parenting tips and giggles. That's all i wanted, and also to meet someone who understands the hardships of having two or more at once and I wanted to meet someone like me. All the abuse i got did really upset me especially what 13itchy 13unny said about "if i really cared..." that offended me so much. because i do care, alot and what happened was out of my control and I did everything I could to stop it. ↑ |
| Name: Lil Missy | Date: Oct 17th, 2006 6:17 PM |
Well I got a boy and a girl named Candice and Clive. I also have a 10 year old girlnamed Ella who's mute. She suddenly turned mute when she was 6 and the doctors believe something happened to her but we ain't worked out what yet.. I personally figured it was her clarinet tutor was interfereing and promptly ended her lessons but she's never even hinted at it, which breaks my heart coz she was always that chatty child. It's almost as if she's lost her voice completely, she don't even talk when she's sleeping, I even took her for hypnotherapy while i was pregnant and the hypnothereapist couldnt even get a grunt. PiageM, how can you not justify my comments, you must know of the overcrowding crisis in prisons? and Lynne n, if your ead our posts you'd see that Nicola and me live in england and not Australia. I was sexually abused as a child by a neighbours son and I was raped by him once but that has stayed with me, I too fell pregnant like Nicola only I had an abortion, and although i odnt regret it, I always think of what might have been. BUt I was far too young to be a mum, but Nicola managed to rear two at 14, I was 12.
But anyway i hate rambling on about the past. Like Nicola said 2 me on msn, what good does it achieve. and i replied naff all! lol. I admire you nicola for what your puttin up with on here and im pleased you got somebody else who's gonna get your back chook. Well I guess id better bath my clan and get them into bed. Because I am so pooped I could sleep for a month, but the hell the would happen. ↑ |
| Name: babey_g_311 | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 2:53 AM |
| I just read this post and wanted to say to Nicola to just ignore those girls....there's alot of naive people in the world who like to come down on others to give themselves something to do or make their lives better...i dont know...but from what I read about what you've gone through you're a very strong person and I for one really admire how you said "how could I hate someone who gave me the best two things in my life", it takes a really really strong person to say that, I think your awesome and wish you luck on school and everything (which sounds like your great at that too) as far as the other girls I think everyone that had to down on Nicola should find something more productive to do with their lives ↑ |
| Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 3:24 AM |
| ya and you know what i think, pull your head out your ass and stop being so gullable. I dont doubt she has twins but im going to say it again NO ONE WOULD GIVE A PEDOPHILE RAPIST VISITATION RIGHTS ↑ |
| Name: babey_g_311 | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 6:09 AM |
| I think your wrong bunny about the pedaphile rapist thing, there are many, many sex offenders out there who have children and who see them etc., for example my husband is a sex offender, his case is a little different he was a juvenile when he made his offense but from that I learned alot about sex offenders, and I learned that they go through treatment *my husband had to* and after treatment they are considered "cured", whether or not they are is subject to opinion but the government considers them cured so they can have visitation rights etc., also I totally believe her....if you notice theres one trait that all these people with fake posts have and thats that they post something than just let everybody talk and never post again, she posted and has kept posting and talking to people, plus she was not out looking for sympathy just for a friend who's in a similar situation to hers, has twins and was raped, theres nothing wrong with that and I can't believe that someone comes to a forum looking for someone to relate to and is beat down by a bunch of people calling her a liar etc., if you think shes lieng just ignore it because for the people that are truthfull they don't deserve this treatment. ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 3:54 PM |
| Thanks babey your right. Sooo right. And it's good to here someone back me up again. I just got back from the doctors with some bad news but I dont want to share it so I'm not gonna. But things will be fine I'm sure. They have to be, coz I'm pretty alone in this world. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 4:48 AM |
Nicola,
2 people can not have the same user name ↑ |
| Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 5:30 AM |
Forum registration form
This name is already taken by another user! Please use another one.
^ Ha!!! - winnmom is right! i just went and tried to re-do my name! i cant believe i didnt try that for myself. Nicola you are ONE SICK BITCH! I think your little attention seeking act is over now. Just give it up. ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 5:33 AM |
What can i say caught out!
Big time!
You are really sick and twisted how can you sit there and say to me that my experience was different to yours and that i should not judge you!
Do you have any idea how hurtful that is i really was rapped but you werent!
That is one sick thing to do young lady! ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 3:01 PM |
| Hey lynne n, and everybody else, im sorry if you dont believe me and if as a result of that youv been offended. But I didnt come on here to do that. I came here to meet some people like me, which i have done. I'm fed up saying I'm not lying. Im going to change my name completley in case there has been a hacker of something using my account-though I cant imagine why theyd use babycrowd and not any of my banking stuff!-if that extra space thing isnt the answer. I would guess it was a hacker because Iv recently lost my account with BT becuase of a hacker so have now changed to pipex or piper or something like that. So when i have time ill cancel this account and start up a new one. I have been raped lynne n, I am a mother and James does have access to Poppy and Daisy. I have posted on the eating disorder forum thing because I went into that by accident instead of another and saw the girl who wanted to become anorexic and wanted advice, I felt I should warn her not to. I posted, "why are all these posts the same," and this anyone got twins post. I HAVE NEVER POSTED ANYTHING ABOUT PUTTING TRIPLETS UP FOR ADOPTION! I have posted in a few places as replies to things, but Iv never changed my "story" because I came on here to meet people like me, not to offend others. I have no motive or reason to lie to you all, because if I lie I wont get what i came on here for. As a rape victim I cannot understand why someone would lie. So when i have got alot of time Ill click around and try to cancel this account and set up a new one, when its set up ill post a new forum thingy doodah. If you dont believe me or hate me, dont bother reading what I write. If you think im lying, ignore it, because apparently I offend you with my life, so if it offends you dont read it, because i find it helpful sometimes to write things in my post and Its nice because Iv lost alot of my friends since having the twins. 2 have died sadly and the others have just drifted away from me so that is why I felt I should meet new people. Well I should really go now coz iv wrote alot, probably an essay worth which is dumb coz i have 3 essays due in week after next that i havent even started. so goodbye. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 3:55 PM |
Nicola why are you doing this??????
Yes I am sure someone "hacked" your babycrowd forum account.....lmao!!!! ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 3:55 PM |
| Watch out there are Hackers on here...... ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 5:00 PM |
| I AM NOT SAYING THEY DID! THAT WAS JUST AN IDEA, I AM NOT THE SAME PERSON AS THE TRIPLET PERSON! I AM ME! LOL. ALTHOUGH I DONT FIND THIS FUNNY I THOUGHT " I AM ME" SOUNDED ODD! MY MAIN "THEORY" IS THAT THE TRIPLET NICOLA HAD AN EXTRA SPACE IN HER NAME SOMEWHERE OR SOMETHING. I AM NOT SICK, OR LYING AND AM FED UP WITH THE ACCUSATIONS PEOPLE ARE MAKING. WHAT WOULD A PERSON GAIN FROM LYING TO A PERSON ABOUT SOMETHING LIKE THAT? TELL ME THAT AND I MIGHT BEGIN TO UNDERSTAND WHY YOU THINK I AM LYING. ↑ |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 7:13 PM |
Well people do it for kicks to see what other will say!
Which is extalley what we have given you! ↑ |
| Name: Nicola | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 7:49 PM |
Oh yeah lynne, that would be why! of course.
Sorry but...nope that is not why i came on this forum. Well I met 6 people and that is what I wanted. They believe me and a couple have even seen my twins on webcam, Lil missy has heard them on the phone and others have seen photos. I suppose thats all that matters really, I've met a couple of people I can identify with and who I can share advice with and stuff but also who I can chat with! I can't delete this account but I dont think I need an account anymore. Its obvous alot of you cant even be arsed to read my posts properly before you assume im lying, and I've met some great people that I can carry on speaking to. ↑ |
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