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Name: Johnboy
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Hi, I am new here, but i just wanted to get some advice from some strangers.
I am 15, going to be 16 june 23'rd, and my girlfriend won't be 14 till around Thanksgiving christmas time. Anyway, we just found out that she is pregnant this past month. She isn't showing real much yet, because she is such a tiny girl to begin with.

We are both very scared though, and do not know what we will tell our parents. I want to do the right thing, and take care of her if i can, and hope her father doesn't shoot me.

I love her veyr much, and neither of us wants an abortion.
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Name: tattudemom | Date: May 10th, 2007 1:35 AM
You said "do not know what we will tell our parents." Well, I'd say there's nothing you can tell them but the truth. There's only one way to get pregnant, so I'm sure they'll figure out real quick what you two have been up to. It's great that you want to be responsible, but I hate to say this is why someone your age has no business having sex in the first place. That's water under the bridge now, I guess. You need to talk to each of your parents, get a job, stay in school, pray you'll have support from family and friends, and do your best. That's about it if you're planning on trying to keep the baby. Otherwise, there are tons of folks wanting to adopt, such as myself, who'll love your baby as you would, and there's no shame in admitting you aren't ready if that's the case. Good luck. 

Name: marco3502 | Date: May 10th, 2007 3:05 AM
We're planning on telling our parents this weekend.

I do know though that they will most likely want us to have and keep the baby, try and own up to our responsibilites. I also know they will most likely want us to stay together as well. 

Name: sezbi | Date: May 10th, 2007 9:55 AM
There is nothing easy about telling the parents...i was 21 and that was hard...you just have to get it over and done with...yes your young which will make it harder..as long as you have love and support everything SHOULD be ok

Get it over and done with ASAP so its one less thing to worry about. Just remember...this is cruel but your parents have every right to be mad and pissed off at you both..you are both VERY young..this is silly..you should of been using protection at the very least...anyway thats all done with...just expect a little backlash

Im sure with time they will accept it...( if there is some problems ) let us know how you go 

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