| Uh -- you had her when you were 12 -- what kind of role model do you think you are for her. You certainly can't say you were playing with Barbie Dolls at her age 'cause you weren't you were probably changing her diapers! Furthermore if you want your daughter to stop dressing so "maturely" why don't you spend more time with her instead of spending time in the clubs? I can't believe you can't see how you are directly responsible for her behavior, in other words it's your fault she behaves that way, you had her at 12, and you still party. This is exactly why 12 year old kids don't need to be having and raising babies (or 13,14,15,16,17 year olds) -- DUH!!!! I bet if you had placed her in a loving, more capable home ie, an adoptive home she wouldn't be doing the things she's doing. The ideals of a 12 year old are way to naive, immature, and rightly so adolecent to be passed on to a growing, impressionable baby. You reap what you sow. ↑ |
| i agree wof most of wat u are sayin libby although i am 17 n i have a 7 month old baby boy n i just want to say that u cnt say we are all lak dat im still at school n wen im not im a full time mum i dnt go out partying and my last nite out was halloween which was 4 2 hours n den i came home again. ↑ |
| You're right there are some teens who although young do take their responsibility as a parent seriously -- I apologize to you and girls like you who I may have insulted. It just makes me so angry to read posts like Renae's that maybe I reacted hastily. Good for you for continueing your education -- you'll need it so work hard and good for your baby for having such a hard working mommy. ↑ |
| thank you i understand wat u mean der is a girl like dat who lives in my area she is onli 17 and has her own house not at school plus she has ppl in drinkin every nite. ↑ |
| It's that kind of person who only thinks of themselves and not their baby that gets me so angry. That child would do so much better with an adoptive family with parents who not only really want him/her, but are at a point in their lives to give unconditionally. The girl you mentioned only thought about her feelings when she decided to keep her baby, otherwise she wouldn't think it's o.k. to subject her child to people drinking every night. What if something happened to that baby and everyone is too drunk to do anything about it? She would feel pretty lousy, but because she is young, immature and selfish she doesn't think anything bad will come out of her actions. Just like Ranae, she continues to live like she is carefree and childless and then wants to know why her daughter is out seeking attention by dressing like a "slut or Whore". She dresses that way, because it is getting her what she wants and if she can't get it from her own mom then she'll get it any way and anywhere she can. OK I'm sorry to go on like that -- It just really gets to me when people can't see their own dumb mistakes!!!! ↑ |
