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Name: marisol.m

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Ok I'm 13 and i lost ma virginity. I feel so stupid because we were unprotected. Im not sure if I'm pregnant or not. But i just feel so dumb because my boyfriend wanted a baby from me and he's 13 also. I should of used protection but I thought he would pull out. But hes seriouse. He told me that he cummed in me and i broke into tears. He was telling me how that he wants this baby because he is so in love with me and he wants to feel like he's somebody because hes a father. But i dont want it. I dont want to grow up too soon. I dont want to skip ma teen years. Hes been making me feel so bad about ma abortion if I am pregnant. And luckily Im glad that i have supportive friends. But i dont know what to do. I didnt tell ma mom yet but ma bestfriend is going with me to buy a pregnancy test. Shes my age. But if i am i want an abortion without ma mom finding out. I read about things you can do. Like taking vitiam C o rough housing but i juss need some advice. Please help. ↓

Name: Cynthia | Date: Dec 5th, 2009 4:24 AM

When you lost your virginity you quit being a little girl and became a young woman. Get a pregnancy test as soon as possible. If you are pregnant and decide to have an abortion if you wait to long it will no longer be an option. It concerns me when you say your boyfriend wants a baby so he can feel like somebody. I became a mom at 16 and that was very hard I can't imagine being a mom at 13. Think about the future if you did bring a baby into this world how would your boyfriend support you and the baby? But most importantly what will you do if he decides he doesn't want to be a father and leaves you to do it alone. You will no longer be able to live for you but you will have to make sure everything you do is the best thing for the baby it would not be about you anymore. Please take that test ASAP and if you are pregnant do what is best for you!!!! please don't listen to your boyfriend because in the end he could always walk away. ↑

Name: Lola | Date: Apr 26th, 2010 6:16 PM

i'm very young and pregnant, please don't waste your teen years that guy can't boss you around like that. If he really loves you he won't ruin your life. Don't do the same mistake i did even though the father of my baby is being very supportive and is going to stick by me this whole journey. ↑

Name: Mia Bly | Date: May 25th, 2010 11:05 PM

I think the first thing you need to do is tell your mom. I think that she will be very understanding, If she gets mad, can you blame her it will blow over. ↑

Name: Andrew | Date: May 26th, 2010 3:55 PM

If you want an abortion have one, do not let this boy decide the rest of your life, you are young and still have so much left to see, to do and to learn.

An your rite, you do not want to skip your teen years because youll forever be trying to grow up. ↑

Name: Ponytailgirl | Date: May 26th, 2010 9:01 PM

No one believes you had sex just once.Very hard to get pregnant the first time. Be honest. How many times did you REALLY have sex with him. 20 times ? 50 times or more ? ↑