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Name: javier. j

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Hey guys, this was suppose to be a happy moment for us. We have twins(girls) who are very healthy and beautiful. The problem is my husband badly needs a boy to be his heir so he doesn't seem to happy and makes us fight sometimes. We can't afford a third child even if it was a boy. I confided in a friend and she advice me to adopt out one of the girls and try for a boy next time. I spoke to my husband and he considered the idea. Just wanted to know if i'm doing the right thing and if somebody is interested in adoption so that we can talk more. Thanks ↓

Name: Teen27 | Date: Aug 9th, 2009 8:46 PM

I don't know what to say about that, but I just wanted to say that I'm a teen and pregnant with twins. Do you have any advice about the pregnancy and/or birth? ↑

Name: motherslove | Date: Aug 12th, 2009 2:20 AM

snaketamer1966 we are interested in adopting please email me at [email protected] ↑

Name: jazzyfaye | Date: Oct 20th, 2009 3:13 AM

I'm not trying to judge you by any means, but twins have such a special bond that only they know. In my opinion (only mine), i would never ever do that. i would keep the girls together. Everyone always thinks they can't afford another child... I think if you have a strong relationship and faith, you will be fine if you have the third child eventually. What will happen if you get pregnant... with a girl again. You give her up? Or what happens ... if by chance.. you have twins again! These are all chances you are taking.. Do you give up a twin in hopes to get your "chance?" Just my opinion again. At the end u are grown and you will do what you feel in your heart is right. Just think something like this very thoroughly because it is truly a heavy weight to carry. ↑

Name: myles evans | Date: Oct 31st, 2009 11:40 AM

Hello.
came across your submission on baby crowd. so please i was wondering to know if you are still interested in adopting a kid?? what ages precisely. i am the matron of an orphanage and our duty is to find ever loving homes for our kids.
my regards i await your reply
God bless you ↑

Name: myles evans | Date: Oct 31st, 2009 11:41 AM

Name: Dee Dee Woodard | Date: Nov 1st, 2009 8:33 PM

My inclination is to tell you not to do that. This is your flesh and blood and you will live with the fact that you gave this child up for the rest of your life. Don't you think it is terribly selfish of your husband to think so much about his own wants and needs that he is willing to let one of your own children go? I am sorry you are in this situation where you are having to consider doing that. Think long and hard about the ramifications of doing something like that. And consider the fact that your second pregnancy could still yield another daughter. ↑

Name: aura | Date: Nov 9th, 2009 2:34 AM

Are you insane? How can you or your idiot husband possibly consider such an atrociuos possibilty? You're talking about giving away your child to please a man who failed to produce enough Y chrome to make a boy? How stupid are you? ↑