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Name: silkhud2007

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My divorce was final this week and I am 6 months pregnant. My exhusband was a rea l jerk and now he wants to be friends. I can't stand him, after everything he put me through I could never be his friend. I am fully aware that if I don't treat him nice he will sue me for custody of the baby we are expecting. I don't have a job cause I had to move back to Texas so I am afraid I will loose my baby if I am not his friend. ↓

Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Dec 31st, 2006 5:56 AM

He can not black mail you into being his friend and you dont have to be his friend, just be nice to his face, be the bigger person. That way he doesnt know how you really feel. You will be coming across to him in a friendly positive way and he will have no reason to doubt you are on good terms or take the baby from you. And i don't thnk not being your ex husbands friend is a very good reason to get custody!
be the bigger person, put on the social mask and let him have what he wants, he wants to be your friend...let him think he is! ↑